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10. Always give a woman as much space as possible. Don't smother her with gifts, phone calls, and affection. Do not phone a woman unless she phoned you or unless enough time has elapsed to make the call a pleasant surprise.
11. She is being a bit prudish, is she? Realize how much better you have it than if you had a slut for a girlfriend. In the meantime, hang back. Don't show your frustration. Resist the urge to say something about it. In the beginning and even after, you should rarely go as far as she's willing to go. Always stop just short of her limit.
12. Don't bring up another man, unless you're going to compliment him. If she speaks of another guy she seems to be interested in, praise what you can about him without sounding stupid. Without asking, you will discover what she doesn't like about him -- and about what she doesn't like about guys in general. Still, you should defend him if you think her criticisms are unfair.
13. Whenever a woman praises another guy to her boyfriend, it is not primarily her intention to make him jealous or to say that she would rather be with the other guy. It is to let her boyfriend know what she likes in a man.
14. A woman wants to ellicit a compliment from you now and then. Often she will do it by trying to make you jealous: a sign of her affection. Therefore, right then is a good time to compliment her.
15. No woman can stand a perfect man--the perfect gentleman, the perfect confidant, the perfect joker, for example. In short, you will just insult her intelligence by trying to be too perfect.
Does this mean that you can't be a perfect whore? Precisely. This is a very important point:
--You must be willing to fuck up now and then -- especially when you approach a woman cold, which any whore worth his name absolutely must do on a daily basis. You can't give a fuck about fucking up.
--Another version of this point is: there are times when the whore manual must be violated. For example, if she get's physically sick, you should take care of her. After she recovers, you can then resume whoring it. Don't forget to resume, or she'll get sick of you. If this happens, no worries, just stay away for longer than usual to jump-start her affection.
16. Laugh only when you find her jokes genuinely funny.
17. All relationship problems come from what I like to call: "the adult complex." This is a state that couples fall into by imitating the media and their elders. Remember, there is no such thing as an adult. There is just a huge contingent of children that insist on "playing adult" to the point of nausea, hypertension, old age, and eventual death.
18. Don't buy into the myth of the single soul-mate. There are millions of women that can fill that roll for you. In other words, don't place so much importance on not screwing up an interaction with a woman your really attracted to. Screwing up is the only way you really learn and the only thing that creates the whore in you. Perfectionism in dating is the main trait of the beatoffking.
19. Never question a woman's purity, for it shows plainly on her person. If she is beautiful, she is pure. You may have to look closely, however. Some women look good at first, but they are really actually quite ugly. Get them talking and you'll see for sure.
20. Do not discuss "what ifs" with her. For example, "what if I told you I was seeing another woman?" or "what if you found one of my friends attractive?" In general, "what if" questions are questions about boundaries. And boundaries just shouldn't be discussed.
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