CONTINUED . . .
Every single argument that has erupted between two human beings has been caused by someone violating this rule.
Think about it, can a man who is weakened really be called "himself" at that point? No. His true self is who he is at full strength.
What a man decides to do during his strongest moment is what he should do always, regardless of what he thinks when he's tired or spent.
30. Want to call her? No problem. But why? There are many possible reasons and you must learn to see which is operating in you at the time:
(a)--Your confidence may be low. Your hope here is that she'll act glad that you called -- give it a boost.
(b)--You may be tired, hungry, or intoxicated and your mind may not be functioning as quickly as it could be, you're thinking of her and it's the only thing your weakened version can think of doing.
(c)--You may just be feeling good and want to make her laugh.
Of these, only "c" is an acceptable reason to call.
31. Your actions define who you are. And they should betray one overriding trait: your desire to know the world -- the fact that you really don't give a fuck about anything else. You are at your best when you are a focused, mental sponge. You are most attractive when all you care about is the electricity of the moment and mental expansion. Fuck impressing people, seriously.
