Just simply stop the feeling of "being put upon." The emission it engenders provides the absolute wrong charge for any molecular interaction to work in the favor of the molecules involved, yours included. Think of the atom that didn't want to be an atom. Could that atom ever inspire the other atoms to do what needs to be done with that kind of electrical charge permeating it throughout?
The way out of this: Give to those who ask. All the time. Never balk in anger. If you don't wan't to move in certain directions, then stop. Don't agonize over it. Give exactly what you can -- do your best to satisfy them, no matter how outlandish the request seems. Enjoy the challenge instead of bemoaning it. Taking a week's vacation will only give a week's rest to your molecular stupidity, ie, your penchant for painstaking boundry setting. Wise up, you are molecules, and molecules positively influence other molecules from the electrical charge of love and love alone. This is true by definition. So you see that getting angry at the requests of others only slows you down -- and it does so at a fundamentally deleterious way. It makes life a prison, a prison YOU RECOGNIZE in all your false wisdom. The slowdown of "doing your best to satisfy the other being's wishes"
is only apparent. It is in fact, the grease in the wheels of all your requests! That is, by "being useful" you gain the power to Command. In fact, "learning to enjoy the challenge of helping those who ask for your help" is THE ONLY ROUTE TO SUCH POWER. IT IS FREEDOM!
