Stress and Stress Management


Would it surprise you to know that you need stress in your life? Life without stress could be dull and unexiting. Stress gives us a chance to learn about ourselves and become stronger people. However, too much stress can seriously affect our physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

Table of Contents

  1. How vulnerable are you to stress?
  2. Having too many changes in your lifestye?
  3. Ways to handle stress.
  4. Stress management humor.
  5. Stress links.


HOW VULNERABLE ARE YOU TO STRESS?

The following test was developed by Psychologists Lyle H. Miller and Alma Dell Smith at Boston University Medical Center. Score each item from 1(almost always) to 5(never) according to how much of the time each statment applies to you.

  1. I eat at least one hot, balanced meal a day.
  2. I get seven to eight hours sleep at least four nights a week.
  3. I give and receive affection regularly.
  4. I have at least one relative within 50 miles on whom I can rely.
  5. I exercise to the point of perspiration at least twice a week.
  6. I smoke less than half a pack of cigarettes a day.
  7. I take fewer than five alcoholic drinks a week.
  8. I am the appropriate weight for my height.
  9. I have an income adequate to meet my basic expenses.
  10. I get strength from my religious beliefs.
  11. I regularly attend a club or social activities.
  12. I have a network of friends and acquaintanes.
  13. I have one or more friends to confide in about personal matters.
  14. I am in good health (including eyesight, hearing, and teeth).
  15. I am able to speak openly bout my feelings when angry or worried.
  16. I have regular conversations with the people I live with about domestic problems, e.g., chores, money, and daily living issues.
  17. I do something for fun at leaast once a week.
  18. I am able to organize my time effectively.
  19. I drink fewer than three cups of coffee, tea, or cola drinks a day.
  20. I take quiet time for myself during the day.

To get your score, add up the figures and subtract 20. Any number over 30 indicates a vulnerablility to stress. You are seriously vulnerable if your score is between 50 and 75, and extremely vulnerable if it is over 75.


HAVING TOO MANY CHANGES IN YOUR LIFESTYLE?

Changes in your life, even good ones, produce stress. Add up your total scores from below and see if you are having too many or too severe changes in your lifestyle.


LIFE EVENT
MEAN
Death of spouse 100
Divorce 73
Marital seperation 65
Jail term 63
Death of close family members 63
Personal injury or illness 53
Marriage 50
Job loss 47
Marital reconciliation 45
Retirement 45
Change in health of family member 44
Pregnancy 40
Sex difficulties 39
Gain of a new family member 39
Business readjustment 39
Change in financial state 38
Death of close friend 37
Change to different line of work 36
Change in number of arguments with spouse 35
Mortgage over $10,000 31
Foreclosure of mortgage or loan 30
Change in responsibility at work 29
Son or daughter leaving home 29
Trouble with in-laws 29
Outstanding personal achievement 28
Spouse begins or stops work 26
Begin or end school 26
Change in living conditions 25
Change in personal habits 24
Trouble with boss 23
Change in work hours or conditions 20
Change in residence 20
Change in schools 20
Change in recreation 19
Change in church activities 19
Change in social activities 18
Mortgage or loan less than $10,000 17
Change in sleeping habits 16
Change in number of family get-togethers 15
Change in eating habits 15
Vacation 13
Christmas 12
Minor violations of the law 11

SCORING

SCORE RANGE
INTERPRETATION
SUSPECTABLILTY
300+ Major life change Poor grades, major illness within 1 year
250-299 Serious life change Lowered resistance to diseases
200-249 Moderate life change Depression
150-199 Mild life change Colds, flus, occassional depression
149-0 Very little life change Good health
Reproduced with permission of: Thomas H. Holmes, M.D., Professor of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences. University of Washington, Seattle.

WAYS TO HANDLE STRESS

STRESS MANAGEMENT HUMOR

STRESS LINKS

BIOBEHAVIORAL INSTITUTE of BOSTON'S IBM ON-LINE STRESS WORKSHOP

Recognizing Stress. Your Stress Scale. Treatment of OVERSTRESS and much more!!

Stress Management: A Review of Principles

Coping with Holiday Stress

How to Master Stress


This page compiled by Wild Angel. A special thanks goes out to Sister Marlena for her assistance in sending ideas to help create this page. Thanks Sister! Your help is greatly appreciated! *hugs*

Page © 1997-2004 Wild Angel


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