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TEMPEST SMITH
A LIST FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO REMEMBER...AND A REMINDER FOR THOSE WHO WISH TO FORGET...

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Several people have requested that I place the name of Tempest Smith here.
Tempest was 12 years old, and was terribly teased by her classmates due to her choice of dress and Path in life.
Whether or not those who knew her regard her as a Witch (with respect), I would like to place her name here, so that people will know of how she suffered, and felt she could no longer carry on with the life she had...just because she chose to be different.
With Blessings, and respect.

LIST OF ALL THOSE WHO WISH TO REMEMBER TEMPEST SMITH:

HEATHER MORTON (OCEAN ORCHID) (~no webpage)

ARAS (~no webpage)

LILITH SILVER

SACRED CROSSROADS

CIRCLEWISE ( request from TERESA)

MYSTICAL LADY (~no webpage)
see below for her moving words

SHADOWDARKFYRE

INVICTUS CHASTEWOLF

JUSTIN

LINCOLN PARK -- Twelve-year-old Tempest Smith sat alone in her bedroom one chilly morning late last month and gazed into the mirror. Shortly before her classes were to start at Lincoln Park Middle School, she kissed her reflection goodbye.
   The lipstick smudges still adorn Tempest's mirror, sad reminders of the day the tall, troubled girl slipped a leopard-print scarf around her neck and hanged herself from her bunk bed.
   Tempest's journal, discovered under her bed after her Feb. 20 suicide, offers a glimpse into a problem family and friends didn't fully understand: the incessant teasing she faced every day about her shy demeanor, choice of clothing and religious beliefs that made each day of school -- then eventually life itself -- unbearable.
   Everyone is against me. Still, death will come sooner or later for me. Will I ever have friends again?
   The haunting, hopeless feelings Tempest privately expressed in her daily journal are shared by an increasing number of children. Although older teens commit the bulk of suicides, at least 300 children ages 10-14 kill themselves annually nationwide. The number of suicides in that age group has tripled since 1995 in Michigan.
   Taunts alone usually won't cause a child to commit suicide, experts say. But combined with other problems, constant ridicule by peers can be enough to push a kid over the edge. Teasing and bullying is a constant thread running through school violence.
   On Monday, a ninth-grader at Santana High School near San Diego shot and killed two students and wounded 13 others; classmates said the 15-year-old was often picked on. And at Columbine High School in 1999, two students who'd been teased for years gunned down 12 classmates and a teacher before killing themselves.
   But for every violent episode that makes headlines, there are more than 2,000 U.S. children each year who, like Tempest Smith, quietly decide they can't take it any more.

'Jesus luvs u'
   Tempest often spent hours in her bedroom writing poems and other reflections in the small notebook she kept beneath her bed. The notebook was a birthday gift from her mother. It had a picture of pop star Ricky Martin on the cover.
   Tempest, a tall, slim blond who got her name because she was born during a violent storm, wrote about typical youthful concerns: crushes on boys; her dog, a shar-pei named Buddy; trips to her grandmother's house. She wrote about family, calling her mother, "the best mom ever."
   She also wrote about the pain she increasingly endured during school.
   He said some things to me. It all made my skin boil. Afterward, my head ached.
Although Tempest had a few friends, many of her classmates had teased her constantly since elementary school. They teased her because she wore dark "Gothic" clothing to school. They teased her because she read books about Wicca, a pagan religion often associated with witchcraft. Her classmates often taunted her with Christian hymns.
   Now people aren't chanting Jesus luvs u. They're singing it.
   "Tempest was her own person, and the kids made fun of her a lot," said classmate Shayna Obiyan, 12.
   Tempest didn't smile much at school, said 14-year-old Jason Pate. "She seemed sad all the time," he said.
   Life at home was different, said Tempest's mother, Denessa Smith. "She was very talented," Smith said of her oldest child. "She liked to play the flute and write poetry."
   Smith, who raised Tempest alone, wasn't concerned when her daughter became interested in witchcraft. "She asked me if I'd buy her some books about Wicca, and I said I wanted to read them first," Smith said. "The books all talked about love and nature. I didn't see anything wrong with that."
   Tempest would get moody sometimes -- "but what 12-year-old girl doesn't?" wondered Smith, an administrative assistant at McDonald's Corp. in Taylor. "I knew she was being teased at school, but I didn't know it bothered her that much. She never told me."
'Her lips were blue'
   Feb. 20 was a half-day at Lincoln Park Middle School. Tempest wasn't due in class until noon. She woke up around 10 a.m., showered, then donned her usual outfit: black pants and a black shirt. Then she ate a bowl of Frosted Flakes and watched television.
   Because of the late school day, Annette Crossman, a family friend, offered to drive Tempest to class while her mother was at work. "She seemed perfectly normal," Crossman said.
   After breakfast, Tempest went to her bedroom. "At around 11:30, I hollered that it was time to go," Crossman said. "She didn't answer."
   Crossman noticed that Buddy, the family dog, was acting strangely. "He was walking around in circles and whining," she said. "That's when I knew something was wrong."
   When Crossman rushed to Tempest's bedroom, she found the girl hanging.
   "At first, I didn't believe what I was seeing," Crossman said. "Then it hit me, and I got a knife and cut her down. Her lips were blue; I was freaking out."
   She called for an ambulance, which arrived within minutes. Tempest was rushed to Henry Ford Hospital in Wyandotte.
   Crossman called Denessa Smith at work, and Tempest's frantic mother raced to the hospital. "When I got there," Smith said, "the doctors told me Tempest was probably brain-dead, but that they couldn't make an official prognosis."
   A helicopter transported Tempest to the University of Michigan Hospital in Ann Arbor. At 5:30 p.m., doctors told Smith her daughter was suffering irreparable brain damage, due to asphyxiation.
   At 10:55 a.m. on Feb. 21, after more than 50 organs were removed from her body for donations, Tempest Smith was taken off the hospital's life support system.
Students express grief, guilt
   Do you want to be around me? Ever will I live in peace?
Students at Lincoln Park Middle School are now trying to find peace themselves, haunted by the feeling that they may have driven their classmate to end her life. Many of Tempest's classmates have told teachers and counselors they feel responsible, because they teased the girl so ruthlessly. More than 100 students showed up at Tempest's funeral last Saturday, bearing cards and placards expressing their grief -- and guilt.
   "I'm sorry if I said mean things to you," one of Tempest's classmates wrote. "I didn't mean them. It was the easiest way for me to hide what was wrong with me."
   "I am sorry that it led to this," was the message written on a placard. "None of it should have happened. If only they had understood, then you would still be alive."
   Lincoln Park school officials and grief counselors have been working with the students.
   "The last thing we want to do is make our students feel guilty," said Lincoln Park Middle School Principal Robert Redden. "But, maybe there is a lesson to be learned here: that we should strive to treat each other with more kindness."
Denessa Smith isn't sure if school staff knew about the teasing her daughter received.
   "Tempest said she told her teachers about it all the time," Smith said. "I have to wonder if someone in the school couldn't have stopped it."
   School administrators weren't aware of the problem, said Principal Redden. "If the teachers don't actually see the teasing, there's not much they can do," he said.

Not too late
   Death -- why does it come? Ever will I die? No, no, I will live hopefully.
   Educators are becoming aware of the often devastating effects of teasing and bullying by students, and some schools are setting policies that deal with the problem. In one Oakland, Calif., district, students have a "consulting teacher" they check in with twice daily, who resolves any conflict before allowing them back to class.
   And in New Mexico, Chelwood Elementary School Principal Jack Vermillion last year instituted an "anti-bullying" program.
   "Experience shows that about 15 percent of students do the teasing; 10 percent are teased; and 75 percent are glad they don't get teased," Vermillion said. "This program focuses on getting that silent majority to speak out when they see a classmate being teased or bullied."
   Such programs seem to work. Vermillion said he usually suspends between eight and 10 students a year for fighting; during the first year of the effort, he suspended just one. And, in Norway, bullying behavior reportedly dropped by 50 percent after a program was instituted in schools there.
   Although Tempest Smith is gone, it's not too late for educators and students to open their eyes to the consequences of teasing, Denessa Smith said.
   "You never know -- something you say might be the one thing that pushes them over the edge," Smith said
   Tempest would've been surprised at how many of her classmates cared about her, said seventh-grader Shirley Kovacs.
   "I was sad when she died," Kovacs said. "The whole school was sad."

IN MEMORY OF
TEMPEST SMITH

I RECIEVED THIS E-MAIL ALSO...

"I am writing on behalf of Sacred Crossroads, a group who is working to set up a pagan community centre in Toronto, Canada. I have been in email conversation with Tempest Smith's mother Denessa for a while in regards to an article I wrote about her last Samhain for my temple's newsletter. Recently, Sacred Crossroads has decided to place an emphasis on helping pagan youth. Since Tempest is so dear to my heart, we would like to be included as remembering her.
Here is our website: http://www.oocities.org/sacred_crossroads/
We will soon post about Tempest on our website as well.
With love and remembrance,
Maahet RainDragon,
Sacred Crossroads
Pagan Community Resources"

I RECIEVED THIS E-MAIL FROM MYSTICAL LADY...

Merry Meet,
I wish to adopt Tempest Smith as my witch.
She was too young to have lost her life so abruptly.
We all know when we are different and look to belong.
I too have been kidded about being a witch/ wiccan and being different but never before have I read someone so young that touched my heart like this story has.
May the southern sun shine deeply into your life,
Mystical Lady