Reflection
by Chris Taylor


*****
I wasn't looking for a lifetime with you
I never thought it would hurt just to hear
"I do" and "I do"
And I do a number on myself
And all that I thought to be
And you'll be the one
That just left me undone
By my own, hesitation
     And for the million hours that we were
     Well I'll smile and remember it all
     Then I'll turn and go
     While your story's completed mine is a long way from done.
Well I'm on a champagne high
Where will I be when I stop wondering why
On a champagne high, high

*****

Well, I must admit that this is a lovely ceremony.  I was surprised that you invited me
here, considering our history.  You look amazing.  You always did, but today...it must
be the sparkle in your eye, the faint blush on your cheeks, the happy smile you can't
stop wearing.  Whatever it is, it's setting my heart to racing again, just like it used to.

When I hear you tell the priest that you do want to have and hold that woman forever,
it brings a lump to my throat.  I wasn't expecting to get so emotional--I thought I was
over this by now.  It's been-what?-two years?  Something like that.  I guess maybe I'm
just sad that you're saying it to her and not me.

I don't resent her; she's a remarkable woman, and she loves you very much.  Just as I
know you love her. I'm glad for that.  You might not believe it, but I'm happy for you. 
You've found your peace, and you're ready to start building your life.  She's three
months pregnant now, isn't she?  You'll be a good father. You're a good man.

We knew, didn't we?  You and I both knew it wouldn't last.  *We* wouldn't last.  I
don't think either of us really wanted it to.  Not at first.  It was just that we were closer
than close.  Everyone knew it, and it was just a matter of time before we pushed the
boundaries of friendship.

You knew I was gay, but how did you know that I wasn't going to push you away
when you kissed me like that? It was so casual and it caught me so completely off
guard.  How could you know me so well?  I fell into your embrace that night, and
became your lover.  There was no real love involved.  It was just casual: something to
make the long nights easier.

We agreed from the beginning that if either of us found someone else, our relationship
would end there. Simple.  Casual.  No strings.  Funny thing is that neither of us seemed
to be in too big a hurry to go out and find anyone else.  Maybe we didn't love each
other, but we were comfortable together.  We always were.

The first few months were a pleasant time.  I think even you would have to admit it. 
We had fun behind closed doors.  The sex was good, the company was good, and it
was nice to be someone important in your life. Strangely enough, it was also an intense,
passionate affair.  I'm not sure if you noticed it, but I sure did.  Everything we did, we
did with gusto.  Nothing halfway.  Oh, I always knew that it would end eventually, but
I was sure I could handle it.  As the old cliché goes: nothing lasts forever, but I didn't
worry about that.

When I first came to the realization that I no longer simply wanted you, but that I
needed you, I denied it vehemently.  I didn't want to need you.  But suddenly I did.  I
didn't want to love you.  But suddenly I did.  And I was completely helpless to stop
feeling that way.  The denial didn't last long.

I spent a lot of nights awake in fear that it would be my last night with you.  Did you
know that?  I watched you sleep.  That was the only time I ever felt it was safe to really
love you.  I thought I'd found the one I'd been searching for.

I tried hard not to let it show, and I'm pretty sure you never knew how strong my
feelings got over the course of our relationship.  There were so many times that I
started to tell you how I felt.  I never quite got there, and I've often wondered what
would have happened if I had.  Would you have told me you loved me too?  Would
you have turned away?  Would you have shrugged it off?  Like you seem to have
shrugged me off?

God, why didn't I tell you?

*****
Spring turned to summer
But then winter turned mean
The distance seemed right
At the time it was best - to leave
And to leave behind
What I once thought was fine
And so real - to me
And while I'm still gone
On the quest for my song
I'm at your - celebration
     And for the million hours that we were
     Well I'll smile and remember it all
     Then I'll turn and go
     While your story's completed mine is a long way from done.
Well I'm on a champagne high
Where will I be when I stop wondering why
On a champagne high
I'd toast to the future but that'd be a lie
On a champagne high, high

*****

I knew you loved her even before you did.  I saw it when you looked at her that first
night.  We were out together, the three of us, and it just kind of hit you between the
eyes.  You looked at her the way I always wished you'd look at me; the way I knew
you never would.  That was why I broke things off when I did.  I wanted to save us
both the embarrassment.

While you and she grew close, you and I grew distant. I hardly ever saw you outside
work.  Silences grew awkward and painful.  It became easier to simply stay away. 
No longer best friends.  Barely even friends. You tried to act like nothing had
happened, but even you couldn't pretend.

You still can't pretend, can you?  That's why there's such a gulf between us.  God, if
we'd only known then that this would happen, maybe we never would have gotten
involved in the first place.  If we hadn't, we'd probably still be friends and not the
strangers we are now.

It has hurt for a long time, but I've put it behind me.  Thought I did, anyway. 
Apparently, I haven't completely.  I've gotten into a few relationships over the past
two years, but none of them really worked out.  I just never felt comfortable with any
of them. Too restless, I guess.  But I'm not worried.  I'm sure I'll find someone, just as
you have.

This is a lovely reception.  You're standing up with your new bride, just smiling away. 
You always did look good in a tux.  I'm in the back, watching, sipping on champagne,
not speaking to anyone.  I'm still a little choked up, and I think I'm probably going to
slip out the door before anyone notices. This is harder than I thought it was going to be.

How in God's name did I think I could be over you?  I loved you so much...and you
never knew.  You thought I was like you: able to enjoy myself without getting too
attached.  How the hell did you do it?  How did you make love to me every night, hold
me, and not feel anything?

This is too much.  I set the glass of champagne down and get to my feet.  I start to
leave, but as I do, I glance at you and see you're looking at me.  I stop moving.  You
mouth one word: wait.  I start to shake my head, but am helpless to resist the pleading
look in your eyes.  Resigned, I return to my place, dreading whatever it is you're going
to say.  If you even want to talk to me.

I'm surprised, frankly, that you want me to stick around.  But I don't leave, and you
don't keep me waiting long.  While the bride is dancing with her father, you slip through
the crowd unobtrusively until you reach me.  I stand and look at you, unable to keep
from staring.

You look up at me and still don't smile.  "You came," you murmur.

"Yeah," is about all I can manage.

"You're looking good," you tell me.

I smile a little at this.  "So are you. Congratulations, by the way."

"Thanks," you say, a tad awkwardly.  "Um, thanks for coming.  I wasn't sure if you
would.  I'm glad you did."

"Wouldn't miss it," I answer easily.  "I'm really happy for you."  I say this with
conviction; I mean it.  "I think you're doing great."

I think you know that I'm sincere.  You smile broadly, and, it might just be the light,
but I could almost swear I see tears in your eyes.  "Thanks," you say huskily.  "That
means a lot."  You pause and glance away for a moment.  "Ryan, I..." you falter just
a bit.  "I'm glad you came.  I...feel bad that I haven't seen you in so long."

The lump has returned to my throat.  "You've got a life now," I shrug.  "I've got one,
too, you know.  I understand."

"Yeah, but-"

"Colin!" someone calls, interrupting you.  You turn away for a moment and nod to
the man who spoke to you.

When you look at me again, you seem sad.  "I'm sorry," you say quietly.  "Look, I
didn't mean for things to end the way they did.  We never even really said good-bye."

"It was for the best," I reply.  "I'm sorry, too.  But we knew it wasn't going to last." 
I shrug, force a smile, and say, "We had fun, didn't we?"

You pause before nodding.  "Yeah, we did.  I guess that's all that matters."  There is
another brief, awkward silence.  "I've got to go," you finally say. "Are you going to
stay long?"

"No," I answer.  "I've, um, got a few things I need to do tonight."

You don't seem surprised.  "Okay."  Quite suddenly, you step forward and embrace
me just as you always used to.  My arms go around you with only a little trepidation. 
Can you feel me shaking?

Unable to help myself, I lean down a bit and give you a quick kiss on the cheek.  And
then, for reasons I will never understand, I whisper in your ear: "I love you."

You pull back, but you don't turn away.  Instead you look up at me sadly and say, "I
know.  I always knew."  You lean forward and kiss my cheek.  As you move away,
you say very softly, "I couldn't wait forever."

And then you're gone.

*****
Your wagons been hitched to a star
Well now he'll be your thing that's new
Yeah what little I have you can borrow
'Cause I'm old and I'm blue...
     And for the million hours that we were
     Well I'll smile and remember it all
     Then I'll turn and go

*****

I stay long enough to see you and your new wife dance slowly, cheek-to-cheek, while
everyone watches with misty-eyed smiles.  You and I have had our day.  It's time for
you and her to get on with your lives.  I really am happy for you.

The dance ends before I leave.  Everyone raises their glasses to you, but I don't.  I
can't.  Instead, I make my way out of the banquet hall, pausing only long enough to
glance back at you.  You're looking at me again, and this time, you don't try to stop me. 
You just smile and nod slightly, as if perhaps affirming that someday, we'll get together
as friends.  I think I'd like that.

I stuff my hands into my pockets and slowly make my way home.

*****
  Well I'm on a champagne high (so high)
  Where will I be when I stop wondering why
  On a champagne high (so high)
  Toast to the future but that'd be a lie
  On a champagne high
  Where will I be when I stop wondering why
  On a champagne high... high...
  So high so high you left me undone
  so high, so high you left me undone....

 *****


[THE END]



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