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Lists, Lists, Everywhere Lists                    Early Fall 2003


I'm a list-maker. I have to do groceries? I make a list. I have a myriad of errands to run? I make a list. I have things to say to someone? I make a list. I'm about to break up with someone? I make a list.

I start out each day at work by making a list of the things I need to get done, then I figure out which ones I can slack on. While I'm slacking, I make a list of things I need to remember, then I pepper each item with extra commentaries, so it looks something like this:

1. Take clothes to get fixed
     --explain about JEANS
     --show her problem @ waist
     --no on the cuffs
2. Zoe food
    --get coupon
    --don't forget treats (new toy?)
3. Buy gifts
   --try Burdine's first
   --frame? martini set/something cute
4. Talk to Cris about this weekend
    --which day/up there or down here?
    --Carrabba's? (I want)

What is it with lists and me? It's definitely the main way I stay organized, because even though I'm on top of the stuff I have to do, if I start up two or three different lists, I get to a point where I either need to write it all down or lose all the info.

But beyond that, I think lists help me keep in touch with thoughts and feelings I may not be aware of on a daily basis. When a new job offer comes up, I list out not just the pros and cons of the actual job, but also my short and long-term goals to see if they're compatible. And let's face it: the axe has fallen on every relationship I've had soon after I made out a list. This list is probably the most comprehensive, divided into sections: pros and cons about the guy, my feelings for him, pros and cons about the relationship, and how our goals and values match (or, as the case has been, don't). Once I see it outlined that way, I'm forced to act, to make changes, to make everything better.

So this list thing has always been a good thing for me. I think. I'll let you know once I've listed out the pros and cons of making lists.
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