Please Don't Say: "This must be the will of God for your life."-
That may be, but if you lost a loved one to death, would
you really want someone to say that to you in your grief?
Please Do Say: "Can I pray with you about this"?
can always adopt a child"- True, and adoption
is a blessing for alot of people, but for many women they still feel the
need to bear a child. Consider Proverbs 30:15-16,..."There are three
things that are never satisfied, four that never say, 'enough'!: the grave,
the barren womb, land, which is never satisfied with water, and fire,
which never says, 'Enough!'
Do Say: "I will pray for you fervently and ask the Lord to bless
you and give you the desire of your heart".
Don'ts with Quotes
"You should adopt and then you'd get pregnant."
Only one percent of couples who adopt, get pregnant.
A Quote: "This always irritated me too . . . I guess because it made me feel like it was 'my fault' I couldn't get pregnant. You know, like if we would start to adopt, we would relax and 'bingo' we'd be doing it right and get pregnant!"
is causing it"
give you mine if I could"
are so lucky not to have kids right now, because
God knows what is
Extremely insensitive things to say to the childless women
"So, you have to go through a little treatment, no big deal."
"So are you still trying?"
"Have a bun in the oven yet?"
"When are you going to give me a grand baby?"
"Maybe you're not doing it right."
Some Do's' Don'ts
and Quotes, from woman
least it didn't have a heartbeat yet."
was probably nature's way of resolving a deformity"
Say: "I am so sorry that
*Thank you LIW for this special list of Do's, Don'ts and quotes. I really appreciate you sending them to me*
Me and Mine
I would like to say as a Mother in Waiting that being a childless couple
been very difficult for me and my husband, but we know that to have true
happiness (with or without a child) we must.."Be joyful always; pray
continually; give thanks in ALL circumstances, for this is God's will for you
in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
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