| :: ARE YOU A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFETIME? :: People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifeime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seems like godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, And now it is the time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelivable amount of joys. Believe it! It's real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationship teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learmed to use in all other relatioships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life; whether be it for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Stop here and just SMILE. Work like you don't need the money, Love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching. I value your friendship in whatever capacity that is or has been. |