IN ORDER TO SUCCEED WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Help your child organise. Put schoolbags, clothing, and toys in the same place every day so your child will be less likely to lose them.

Limit choices. Offer your child a choice between two things (this outfit, meal, toy, etc., or that one) so that he or she isn't overwhelmed and overstimulated.

Create a routine. Try to follow the same schedule every day, from wake-up time to bedtime. Post the schedule in a well looked at  place, so your child can see where he or she is expected to be throughout the day and when it's time for homework, play, and chores.

Avoid distractions. Turn off the TV, radio, and computer games, especially when your child is doing homework.  People blessed with ADD or ADHD have enough to distract them within themselves without external stimuli adding to it.  (says me doing this site whilst watching tv!)

Change your interactions with your child. Instead of long-winded explanations and cajoling, use clear, brief directions to remind your child of his or her responsibilities

Discipline effectively. Instead of yelling or spanking, use timeouts or removal of privileges as consequences for inappropriate behaviour. Younger children may simply need to be distracted or ignored until they display better behaviour.

Use goals and rewards. Use a chart to list goals and track positive behaviours, then reward your child's efforts. Always  ensure the goals are realistic (think baby steps rather than overnight success).

Help your child discover a talent. All kids need to experience success to feel good about themselves. Finding out what your child does well - whether it's sports, art, or music - can boost social skills and self-esteem, enabling your child to gain much needed boosts to their confidence.

Page Created 23 May 2007 Last Modified 23 May 2007