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| 02:07AM Sunday, 07th January 2007 They have been meeting up everyday since 29th December 2006. Yesterday afternoon they met up and finished the girl friend's project. She made lunch for him and soon they have to part. At night, the girl's grandmother felt ill and was sent to the hospital. She told him about it and he was worried for her. The guy tried to console her and help her calm down. They continued chatting through SMSes and at 12Am+ the conversation calmed because her grandmother was still ok. The guy sighed and said: "waiting another 6 years to be officially together is still a long away." She replied: "6 years is a long time, we won't know if we'll change in future or not because it's too early to say anything." Upon receiving the message, the guy felt very sad and disappointed in her. He replied scolding her with a bit of anger and was very harsh towards her. She said: "Most guys will change after they enter National Service and that all promises can't guarantee he won't change after he goes in to the army." He was very hurt by what she said. By saying those words, she shattered his heart, erased all the promises he made to her and made him felt she don't or had never trusted him at all. She then made a promise that she won't leave him unless something bad happens or he were to leave her in future. These words ease his disappointment but he was still very sad and hurt by what she said. Partly was because many things happened to them that seem they are drifting apart soon. Soon the quarrel ended as the girl said to drop the topic because it will make them unhappy. She asked him to wait for her call after she gets home. He waited for 30 minutes since her last message on 01:14Am and got worried that she's unsafe while going home. So he sent a SMS asking whether she had reached home. After a few minutes his phone rang, it's a call from her saying she has reached home. As he was still feeling upset, he did not show much expression and the tone in his voice tells the girl that he's crying. She asked if he was but he denied so that she will not be sad. After hearing the girl's voice and consoling words, he felt more comfortable and happier. The guy was so afraid that she might call and ask for a break up. Due to too many experiences, he's very afraid of losing her in future. |