SpecialFriend

Hmmm…now the difficult part…

We are in search of a woman that is compatable with our very special and close-knit family and lifestyle. Differences between us are fine, and can most likely strengthen our friendship. The husband and wife of the house have a number of differences between them, but quite honestly they get along better than any other couple that they know. We are looking for someone with the same interests, dedication, honesty, and commitment to developing a strong and loving relationship, and to grow into an "extended" but close-knit family.

We are looking for someone who, in time, will become a close friend and loving companion and partner to our family, including our wonderful children. We are seeking to develop a very important long-term relationship, so this partner must be trustworthy and totally honest at all times, for that is what she will receive from us. A lot of time and effort must be put into any worthwhile relationship so someone looking for a long-term commitment is certainly preferred, but others may be considered.

This friend and companion should be self-supporting and not seeking constant daily attention, especially in the beginning of our friendship. We truly believe in going slow in a relationship and not jumping in with both feet before "everyone" has the oportunity to really get to know and understand each other. Some people we have talked with have no problem in becoming fully committed to each other in a very short time (a few weeks to a couple of months), but many times this only ends up in big surprises for everyone. Lets face it, can you really get to know someone well enough to make a lifetime commitment in a few weeks time? We do not think so. We believe that this takes months and months for a relationship to grow well enough for this type of long-term decision to be made. Of course we have had instances in which a potential partner was very compatible with us and things progressed much more quickly than we expected. We do understand that this is a possibility when someone seems "just right", but we do not want to rush anything if we can help it. We are looking for a life-time commitment, not a short time fling. So, we expect that when "the three of us" are all positive that we want to form a permanent committed and honest relationship together it will happen. It won't happen over-night, but it will happen.

Both of us are professionals and have busy schedules with professional and family obligations. Regular communication is an important part of all stable relationships. As our friendship and care for each other grows, so too will our need to spend more and more time together. A special person with her own responsibilities and obligations that needs regular, affection and quiet talk is ideal. When a strong and mutual bond develops between all of us we will certainly need to spend greater amounts of time together as a group or family, and in pairs, allowing us to form an even closer and deeper bond. Our ideal partner is someone that becomes a permanent member of our close family someone that spends her time with us as one happy family.

When an enjoyable and stable relationship develop we would certainly hope this special friend could be a regular and important part of our close-knit family. Ideally, and with the right person, it would be fulfilling for this special friend to spend more and more time with our family in our modest home. While we do not have the space available for this special friend to live in our home we would enjoy daily contact so we can all bond together and share the days events, our hopes, our fears, our desires, and to spend some quiet time together as a close and loving family. Of course we are open to other possibilities too. We have considered the possibility of building on to our home, or perhaps buying a neighboring home so our pertner is always with us.

This very special woman friend and companion should be someone who is caring, loves to hold another, and to be held closely. Someone that loves to snuggle and to share quiet and intimate times with is a must. The man of the house is very loving and passionate. With his busy, and sometimes stressful carreer he finds great santuary and comfort while in a strong and loving embrace with a caring female partner. One with which to snuggle, nuzzle, and hold hands with while quietly talking, forgetting of the days events, as only true and heartfelt lovers can do.

When sexual intimacy becomes part of our special companionship everyone must be absolutely honest with each other. The man of the house does not have the time or interest in having a number of different sexual partners. But he does have a strong desire for intimate and loving contact with the close female companions in his life. His time and efforts are focused solely on his wife and family and that of his special and close companion. He has absolutely no interest in having outside relationships. He wants to share his special capacity for love with only those that truly deserve it - those that truly love him...

So long as this special woman fulfills the above basic prerequisites, we are very open-minded with other details. We are really open to many different religous backgrounds and personal "stylistic" preferences that others may have. We have a wide variety of interests ourselves, and while we don't "identify" ourselves with titles as (Sci-fi, Pagan, Native American, or this or that) we have no problems with people that do. We've done a lot of different things in the past, have a lot of current interests and are always open to learning about new things. Perhaps you have a new perspective or activity that can be shared with us. We have no problems with a companion having their own children either, for this could deepen our mutual bonds.

If you feel you are compatible with our family and are interested in discussing further the possibility of beginning a honest and committed relationship please contact us. We would love to hear from you.

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