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1) IDENTITY TEST:
You're what we call an ambivert! You've got charm to spare, but sometimes you prefer to remain in the background. Your social skills allow you to be a real diplomat. But there's so much more to learn about your identity. Wanna hear about your other four personality traits? Sign up with Emode and read on.
The test you've just taken is a short version of the Five Factor model of identity. Among psychology experts, this approach has become broadly accepted for its accuracy and consistency. The five dimensions in this model give a complete description of your personality traits: Openness to Experience, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness and Negative Emotionality. Read below to see your scores and understand what they mean.
Openness To Experience (6/10 - "more curious" side)
Your medium score in the Openness category means that you are moderately interested in the creative arts. You probably show some real imagination at certain times, or display a strong curiosity towards the new. But these moments are balanced by a more practical focus on the pragmatic concerns and realities of everyday life. Rather than letting your mind wander too far, you prefer to remain relatively focused. These aspects of your personality reflect a character somewhere between a conservative and a dreamer.
Conscientiousness (6/10 - "more focused" side)
Your medium score in the Conscientiousness category means that you have achieved a solid balance in your outlook towards responsibility. You are probably somewhat organized, with a little room for improvement. Your priorities probably reflect a mix of work and play. Thoughtfulness characterizes your thinking style, so you give gravity to important decisions without making a big deal out of minor issues. You are probably serious about achieving success, but do not feel completely driven by this motivation. All in all, you've got a very healthy perspective on work and duty.
Extraversion (4.5/10 - "less extraverted" side)
Your medium score in the Extraversion category defines your social identity. You are probably comfortable in either a crowd or by yourself, and spending time alone or with company is equally enjoyable. When among others, you tend to stand in the foreground, although you may not always wish to take the position of a leader. Instead, you seem to prefer moving between the role of leader and follower, as the situation requires. You probably keep a moderately active social life; you're generally on the lookout for excitement, but certainly don't require it. You tend to keep a fairly positive emotional outlook, and people can usually count on your for some good cheer.
Agreeableness (6.5/10 - "more adaptive" side)
The Agreeableness category refers to your social disposition. Your medium score indicates someone who balances the priorities of your own inner voice with the needs of others. You tend to be concerned with the harmony of the group, while maintaining a certain independence. Depending on the situation, you might adopt a stance that defers to the wishes of others, or else assert your own individuality. In this way, you have a great deal of tact, and believe in the situational equality of people. You probably have an approachable and kind personality. People probably admire you for your ability to speak your mind when appropriate.
Negative Emotionality (5.5/10 - "more reactive" side)
Negative Emotionality refers to your emotional reactivity. Your medium score means that you're someone who negotiates your emotions depending on your situation. Sometimes you may feel quite sensitive and emotional, while other times you may remain resilient to outside pressures. This quality of adaptation best describes your emotional character. You maintain a rational outlook, which is moderated by feelings. For example, you can sometimes feel sad, stressed, worried or embarrassed under the weight of a situation, but you are able to act quite calm and reserved, without yielding to the stress. Responsive, without being overly reactive, is the best way to describe you.
2) Ultimate Personality Test
[Y]ou're an Observer!
You like television. At parties, you lounge around on couches and watch other people flirt and act stupid. But at the same time, you're happy enough to go along with the group. You don't like drawing attention to yourself - red platform shoes or flamboyant, sequined outfits are out of the question. A perfect evening for you means a cozy chat with a good friend and a pint of Haagen-Dazs.
Like all mellow folks, you're not too into serious soul mining. You'd rather just relax than freak out about yourself. But at the same time, you recognize that understanding your inner nature can help you further develop your sense of intuition, discover parts of yourself that remain below the surface, and learn how to better communicate with others. And that's cool, right?
At work, you're a team player, but chances are you aren't clamoring for that big promotion. Where to go for lunch is enough of a decision for you. You work best under a routine, and you avoid challenges that require too much improvisation.
3) What type are you?
You are a Romantic
Your courtship philosophy is simple: No woman can resist being wined and dined. Some flowers ... a nice dinner ... a little soft music .... Face it, you're a Romantic. From opening the car door to asking for her permission for a goodnight kiss, your gentlemanly gestures make any woman feel just like a princess. You're not afraid to reveal the sensitive side of your personality, and the gals can't help but adore you for it. A little traditional? Yup. A little old-fashioned? Maybe so. But did a little extra doting ever hurt? Definitely not.
Your type is the Sorority Sister
Give you an L! Give you an O! Give you a V! Give you an E! The All-American, letter-sweatered Sorority Sister is your ideal girl. She's perfectly coiffed and dressed, and never has a bad word to say about anyone (at least, not to their face). She can be prim and proper, but she's also quick to grab a beer and a burger at tailgate parties. She's got a somewhat unattainable quality, and that makes you want her even more. She's almost too perfect to touch, but the extra challenge makes the payoff even sweeter. Her fun-loving personality and traditional values make you proud to have her on your arm. Standing by your side for backyard barbeques in the suburbs, life with this gal will be a "Leave it to Beaver" dream.
5) Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist?
(7.5/10 - "optimist" side)
Well, everything's not quite roses and teddy bears for you, but you do tend to look on the bright side of life (we can hear those Monty Python boys whistling right now...). Sure, you sometimes bitch and moan about your problems (who doesn't?), but deep down you're pretty sure that everything will eventually turn out fine. When the weather man says it's going to be sunny, you leave your umbrella at home. In general, you like to be around people, and you try to make new friends when you can. You do your best to take things at face value, rather than making mountains out of molehills. Basically, the world is sort of like a big coconut to you: tough and hairy on the outside, but, when you get down into it, there's good stuff inside.
6) Are you an Introvert or an Extrovert?
(5.5/10 - "extrovert" side)
You're not about to move into a shack in remote Montana all by yourself, but then again, you'd rather do that than be bugged all the time about how you're feeling or what you're thinking about. That's because you're much more of an introvert than an extrovert. What does that mean? Well, we're guessing you usually try to keep a low social profile (it's handy being your own best friend, after all). Chances are you feel like you know enough people, and you don't go out of your way to meet new ones. But that doesn't mean you don't go out and let loose every once in a while, especially if you're in the company of your core group of close friends. A few of those is all anyone really needs anyway, right? And most nights a good book and a glass of wine beats even your nearest and dearest hollow. All well and good, but try testing your limits occasionally and breaking out of your comfortable shell. The results may surprise you.
Left Margin
Looks like you're always ahead of yourself! Your wide left margin indicates that you put the past far behind you. Are you running away from something or just embracing the future? Either way, you manage to jump into new things without looking back. (where I may have been able to do things better, I would look back)
Right Margin
Does the future seem a little daunting? Well, that wide right margin of yours tells us it might. It seems that you hesitate before beginning new projects. Caution is a good thing, but don't let it break your stride.
What's it like living in the future? Your narrow right margin reveals that you've got no time for today. Ambitious, spontaneous, and adaptable, you forge ahead without any hesitation.
(I'm kind of in between)
Dots
I feel witty, oh so witty. Don't you know how witty I feel? A dash or a comma in place of a dot indicates an ironic sense of humor.
Baseline
But that's not in the rulebook! Writers who hug the baseline tend to play life by the rules. You probably value security and stability over adventure and excitement. Pragmatic and particular, your life is always kept in control and running smoothly.
Evenness
The wavier the baseline, the more emotional the writer. You can get excited about many things at once. But your moods change frequently, and you might not finish all the projects you start. Your greatest gift is living life passionately and fully. With you, there's never a dull moment. (well.. the waves aren't that high..)
Slant Lines
Everything's coming up roses. Your slant shows an even temperament and a warm outlook on life. Neither overly excited nor unusually down, you're just going with the flow.
Crossbars
Quick! What's 2 plus 2? T bars that connect to other letters point to a sharp intellect and a resourceful person.
Slant Letters
Calm, cool, collected. You don't let your feelings get the better of you. Most likely, you're a person who exercises strict control over verything you do. You think before speaking, ponder before acting, nd consider all possibilities before making a decision. You know how o cut loose at the right moments, but you rarely do anything pontaneously.
You're warm and approachable. A right slant indicates a general penness and ease of expression. You're probably very in touch with our emotions and aren't afraid to let them show. People enjoy your asygoing nature and admire your sincerity.
(I'm kind of in between)
8) Emotional IQ Test
Thanks for taking our new Emotional IQ test! Based on your answers, your score is 113.
What does that mean? Well, the Emotional IQ (or "EIQ") test measures several different areas of emotional skills and strength, including:
Empathy - The ability to successfully put yourself in other people's shoes and understand their feelings, thoughts, and emotions
Relationship Understanding - The ability to connect with others personally and professionally, which can help you solve even the most difficult disagreements
Emotional Control - The ability to be in charge of your feelings, no matter how strong they are, and not let them run away with you or dominate your behavior
Emotional Awareness - The ability to identify your emotions and put them into words so you can more easily express your feelings
Based on your higher-than-average score, we can tell that you're usually aware of others' feelings and also pretty good at keeping a decent perspective on life. Balancing your emotional needs with everyone else's is tricky, and sometimes you can feel a little adrift on the big sea of feelings out there, but for the most part, you're doing okay.
If you need help keeping things in balance, consider this: While it's important to be a good friend and lover to others, it's also essential to see the bigger picture and take care of yourself. Offering someone a shoulder to cry on is great; worrying yourself into a tizzy every time someone you care about hits a rough patch isn't. For one thing, it's exhausting! If you wear yourself out fretting about other people, you won't have any time left for yourself. And we all have the right to treat ourselves right and be selfish with our feelings now and then. The road to emotional health and well-being can be bumpy, but if you make it a point to strive for balance and move at a relatively even pace, the bumps won't be so bad. Luckily, you've found a pretty smooth route to drive on - keep the wheel pointed in this direction, and you'll be okay. Good job!
9) Which Party Animal Are You?
You're an Owl, a laid-back, alternative hipster with your own style. You have a unique way of looking at things, social occasions included. And when it comes to parties, you take them at your own speed. Rather than swing with the rockin' robins, you sit on your own branch, slowly blinking your eyes at the world as it goes by. You're more likely to observe the action from the sidelines than to be right in the thick of it, which suits you just fine. The running commentary in your head is more interesting than jumping out on the dance floor and shaking your tail feathers anyway. It wouldn't hurt for you to circulate every once in a while, but you're happiest doing your own thing, whether it's at your co-worker's housewarming party or a high school buddy's Saturday-night get-together. (I had "hyena" before.. but I think this one's more like me... and I'm pretty much the same whether in big or small parties)
10) What's your True Color?
Your color is black. The color of night. Serene and mysterious, black conjures up images of elegant evening gowns, dashing tuxedos, and gleaming limousines. Traditionally a symbol of success, black also represents power and an uncompromising demand for perfection. Not surprisingly, you tend to set challenging goals for yourself and do whatever it takes to achieve them - your strength of character is second to none. This unfaltering determination, along with your natural elegance, impresses people. But keep in mind that your personality might be intimidating to some. Try to temper your demanding side with a little softness - trust us, it won't kill you. Overall, though, black is the color of professionalism and achievement, which means it's clearly the color for you.
11) What color is your Aura?
We don't need a psychic to tell us that you're giving off a Gold vibe. You couldn't ask for a better color - a glistening gold aura is as good as it gets. A lively blend of yellow and orange, gold people are happy, playful, energetic, sensitive, and generous. Always up for adventure, you'd give a friend in need the shirt off your back. You're spiritual, too - all those halos in old paintings aren't colored gold by coincidence. Almost childlike in the carefree, joyful way you live your life, you're popular and outgoing with your large circle of friends. Chances are you're so full of light and energy that you sometimes find it hard to sit still and chill out. Instead, you're constantly looking for excitement, no matter how risky or impulsive the occasion. Happy-go-lucky and always laughing, you truly are as good as gold.
(I didn't totally agree with that so I took it again and got this:)
We don't need a psychic to tell us that you're giving off a Turquoise vibe. Turquoise types are often intelligent, energetic leaders. Vibrant and dynamic, you take center stage wherever you go; people are naturally drawn in by your charismatic nature. You love to learn, and you excel at remembering facts and figures. More than likely, you're a go-getter with your eyes on the prize. Respect and influence tend to come to you easily, but that doesn't mean you sit around waiting for them. What fun is achieving something if getting there isn't a challenge? Always pushing your limits, you'd be a natural on Survivor — a healthy competitive instinct and a willingness to take risks means you usually reach your goals. You like to look, feel, and act your best; if all those ducks are in a row, nothing's gonna get in your way.
(...but then I didn't totally agree with that either!)
12) What's your Stress Style?
You're a Stoic. Your stress style follows the path of many steadfast folks: Think of the Brits with their "stiff upper lips," or the Germans with their cool-as-a-cucumber reserve. It amazes those who know you, but stress hardly seems to affect you. In fact, friends might even say you're oblivious to the tension in your life.
But being in denial about stress doesn't really make it go away. Small problems may seem to take care of themselves when ignored, but major life issues need attention to be resolved in a positive way. The next time you're faced with serious stress, pull your head out of the sand and try giving the situation your full attention for a change. You might be surprised to find that your coping skills are actually quite good - even if they're a little rusty.
(the first time I did the test they told me I was a Buddha; but I'm actually not that stress-free so I redid the test)
13) What's Your Emotional Age?
(7/10 - "more mature" side - all 3)
Behavior:
There are countless reasons why people may act or feel a certain age at any given point in their lives. Feeling a certain age is not a static thing, nor is it something that always follows a pre-determined pattern. Some people act older when they are children then have a second childhood in their retirement years. Others act like children until they become parents and then seem to click into a different mode. It can be helpful and insightful to learn which stage you're at right now, and why.
Nobody fits neatly into a given category. There are several components in your emotional age: behavior, feelings, and responsibility. In the area of behavior, you seem to fall into the "adult" category. Adults tend to be efficient and responsible. You are probably a "doer" whom others consider reliable, stable, and consistent. People feel they can depend on you. Of course, if others rely too much on you, it can be a burden. You seem, however, to be someone who strikes a healthy balance between fulfilling others' needs and taking care of your own. Just be aware that if you feel overwhelmed by the pressures put on you, you should take some time out for yourself.
Emotions:
In the realm of emotions, you seem to fall into the "adult" category. This means that you are probably in control of your emotions. You can recognize your feelings and express them clearly. You are probably rational and composed, but you make sure that you do not neglect your own emotions. This healthy balance allows you to interact well with others, while staying true to yourself.
Responsibility:
When it comes to the level of responsibility you assume, for yourself or others, you fall into the "adult" category. This means that you are probably someone who can be relied on to come through in any situation. People around you likely consider you dependable and strong. Don't let your dominant care-taking side force you to neglect your own needs. Keep a healthy balance and continue to take care of yourself too.
14) What's Your Flavor?
Mmm ... vanilla! Clean, fresh, and classic, you're the flavor of ice cream on hot summer nights and cookies dipped in hot cocoa. In a word, you're comforting - a steady, faithful person who's a rock in times of trouble and always has a shoulder for friends to cry on. Don't underestimate your importance; everyone needs someone they can count on. Flashy? Not you. Overwhelming? Never. You're reassuring and friendly, the ultimate warm blanket people love to snuggle up with. Simple, soothing, and good with everything from fresh berries to chocolate sauce, you're a truly tasty treat.
With such a cozy, comforting taste, you're the most kissable person around. Your naturally versatile flavor is scrumptious on its own, and it could be twice as tasty when matched with a kiss from your honey. Head to Maybelline to find all kinds of cosmetics to complement your flavor. With some Strawberry-Kiwi Kissing Potion she'll be as irresistible as dessert. You might even win a Sony DVD player or Florida vacation in the Lucky Looks Instant Win Game.
15) What's Your Shopping Style?
Ka-ching, Ka-ching! We'd be willing to bet the cash register that you're a happy-go-lucky, relaxed shopper - a true Laid-back Luke. Hitting the stores is fun for you, and you never mind doing a little bit of window shopping, especially when you have money to spend. You don't always need to buy something, but when you are ready to make a purchase, so much the better! That's when you really get into checking out all the options and dropping some of your hard-earned cash on the perfect pair of running shoes or a great new gadget. Your shopping style is as stress-free as it gets, so enjoy! (And be grateful you don't have to worry about crazy credit card bills!)
16) Are You a Slacker?
(2/10 - "less of a slacker" side)
Congratulations for having your life on track. Slacking is definitely not your style. It's a wonder you found any time to take this test! As the anti-slacker, you probably don't feel comfortable leaving tasks unfinished. Tackling projects and chores as they present themselves is a great way to keep your life free of clutter. You exercise a lot of control over your life. Most likely, you'd rather handle something yourself than leave the responsibility to someone else. Your friends and coworkers value your efficiency and reliability. They probably turn to you if they have an event to plan or deadlines to meet. You might be the kind of person who tries to do everything at once.
17) Which Executive Are You?
Okay, time to confess: You've always loved that Randy Newman song "It's Money That I Love," haven't you? Don't worry - that's not a problem. In fact, it actually gives you an advantage in this bottom-line-focused rat race. Not to mention that it makes you an ideal CFO. Chief financial officers are all about money, from accounts payable to petty cash. Since you're detail-oriented and a consummate perfectionist, you'd be great at making sure all the columns on the spreadsheet add up right. Minding the books is hard work, but you love a challenge. Who knows? If this works out, you could end up like Scrooge McDuck and have a giant money bin to swim in. (Mind if we come over for a dip?) No doubt about it, there's a promotion in your future. So keep up the good work! (at first I had "consultant" but I sorta disagreed... Anyway, I would like to be Chief Info Officer one day)
18) What's Your Perfect Car?
Who cares if the paint job is almond brown or eggshell white? The car for you is a solid, simple Sedan. We're thinking a Toyota Camry, a Lexus, or even a Benz. Pure comfort and smooth sailing is what you desire, with as little contact with the outside world as possible. From your airtight cabin, you want to get to and fro without difficulties or stress-and keep a classy but low profile. You're the classic, successful American, on your way to the mall, the movie theatre, or a charming bed and breakfast. Your personality is calm, cool, and collected-as polished as the shine on that freshly washed hood. You don't look to be provocative and don't give anyone any trouble; you just treat your little car well and expect it to return the favor. As long as it gets its regular checkups, your wheels are as reliable and dependable as you. Thanks to your trusty sedan, you can be sure to make all your meetings and save a few on rising gas bills. Vive le sedan.
When you decide to take the plunge and make that stylin' Lexus your very own, make sure you do it with E-loan. Approval is so quick and easy, it'll hardly cut into your weekend day trips. Just imagine yourself slipping into that comfortable interior and feeling the road disappear beneath you. There's no better way to get your dream car.
19) Are You a People Pleaser? (5.5/10 - "more desire to please" side)
You aim to please - most of the time. Bringing a smile to someone's face is just par for the course for you. Although keeping everyone happy is a high priority, you still try to look out for number one. You are both familiar and comfortable with compromise. You try your best to keep the peace in your relationships. And if maintaining that peace entails some sacrificing, that's life. Even though you don't neglect yourself in your decisions, you might often place others' needs above your own. Be careful not to sell yourself short. If you give more than your share, you might not be demanding the amount of respect you deserve. Having some symptoms of the "Disease to Please" is a good thing. It shows how much you value others in your life. People love people pleasers! It's great to place "other people" at the top of your list, but just make sure that you stay up there too! (someone once said, "To please everybody is to please nobody".)
Appearance (6.5/10 - "more perfectionist" side)
Although you're probably very conscious of how you look, you're willing to occasionally leave your house without every hair in place and every crease in line. You're very aware of your appearance, but you don't obsess about it. You're okay with changes in your getting-ready routine, and are fine with not always looking your absolute best.
Possessions (6/10 - " )
Looks like you take very good care of your possessions - without obsessing about them. Since you probably take pride in the condition of your things, you like to keep your surroundings in a relatively neat, organized state. But you know that every little thing doesn't necessarily have one spot it has to be in at all times, and you're just fine if everything isn't always in peak shape. That's a great attitude - being aware of, but not overly concerned about, your possessions is an effective way of extending the lifespan of your things without causing yourself undue stress.
Work (6.5/10 - " )
We can tell that you prefer to turn in top-notch work and always invest a significant amount of pride in every task you take on. But you also understand that it's important to have an open mind and a flexible attitude at work. That's why you're able to occasionally let your personal standards slide a little when your employer needs you to. So you stay open to change, while at the same time remaining organized and efficient enough to plan out a day or week at a time. Keep up the good balance!
(add'l info on perfectionism...)
21) Are You a Risk Taker?
Silly (3.5/10 - "less silly" side)
Sounds like you don't really like doing silly, goofy things, probably because you don't want to look bad in front of other people. Staying safe is all well and good, but you might want to lighten up a bit and try some more off-the-wall behavior. Although it might seem like you're making a fool of yourself, being a little crazy can be lots of fun - and the more you do it, the better it gets. (some people actually look nice being silly... but not me.. I think I'm more attractive being mature)
Dangerous (6/10 - "more dangerous" side)
When it comes to physical danger, you're willing to take a few risks. You go between seeking out excitement and thrills and deciding to take the safer road. That's great - it sounds like you've got a good balance of fun and safety, which is the best way to enjoy yourself and stay whole and healthy at the same time.
Emotional (6/10 - "more emotional" side)
Sure, you'll take a few emotional risks, but not all of them, and not all the time. You recognize that almost all of life involves putting your heart and soul on the line, but you're not always in a real hurry to run up and meet the challenge. At least, not without thinking about it - considering the pros and cons comes first. That makes you a pretty balanced person, one your friends probably love turning to for good advice.