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            William Lawrence Rich Sr.
            July 28, 1901 - March 1, 1971




            The Measure Of A Man
            Not "How did he die?" ßut "How did he live?"
            Not "What did he gain?" ßut "What did he give?"
            Not "What was his station?" But "Had he a heart?"
            And "How did he play his God-given Part?"
            Not "What was his shrine?" Nor "What was his Creed?"
            But "Had he befriended †hose really ín need?"
            Not "What did †he piece ín †he newspaper say?"
            ßut "How Many were sorry when he passed away?"
            Was he éver ready with a word of good cheer.
            To ßring ßack a smile, to banish a tear?
            These are †he units †o measure †he worth of a man , regardless of birth.



            "My Way"
            If there was ever a song that decribed a man it is this one. My Dad was successful and VERY subborn!

            And now, the end is near; And so I face the final curtain. My friend, I'll say it clear, I'll state my case, of which I'm certain.

            I've lived a life that's full. I've traveled each and ev'ry highway; But more, much more than this, I did it my way.

            Regrets, I've had a few; But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption.

            I planned each charted course; Each careful step along the byway, But more, much more than this, I did it my way.

            Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew When I bit off more than I could chew. But through it all, when there was doubt, I ate it up and spit it out. I faced it all and I stood tall; And did it my way.

            I've loved, I've laughed and cried. I've had my fill; my share of losing. And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing.

            To think I did all that; And may I say - not in a shy way, "No, oh no not me, I did it my way".

            For what is a man, what has he got? If not himself, then he has naught. To say the things he truly feels; And not the words of one who kneels. The record shows I took the blows - And did it my way!



            Dad   Grandpa   Friend

            He was know to his friends as Bill to his sisters "Willy". Bill was born in Jersey City, New Jersey to a poor Irish-German Family. He had three sisters Mae, Nellie and Loretta and two brothers, Frank and John. My grandmothers name was Johanna and Dad never spoke of his father.

            I still miss him to this day. This piece my friend Mary sent is special to me because my Dad would have me step on his shoes when I was little and we would dance and dance. In the end this great man was felled by a stroke.

            Heart Song

            Once upon a time there was a great man who married the woman of his dreams. With their love, they created a little girl. She was a bright and cheerful little girl and the great man loved her very much.

            When she was very little, he would pick her up, hum a tune and dance with her around the room, and he would tell her, "I love you, little girl!"

            When the little girl was growing up, the great man would hug her and tell her, "I love you, little girl. "The little girl would pout and say, "I'm not a little girl anymore." Then the man would laugh and say, "But to me, you'll always be my little girl."

            The little girl who-was-not-little-anymore left her home and went into the world. As she learned more about herself, she learned more about the man. She saw that he truly was great and strong, for now she recognized his strengths. One of his strengths was his ability to express his love to his family. It didn't matter where she went in the world, the man would call her and say, "I love you, little girl."

            The day came when the little girl who-was-not-little-anymore received a phone call. The great man was damaged. He had had a stroke. He was aphasic, they explained to the girl. He couldn't talk anymore and they weren't sure that he could understand the words spoken to him. He could no longer smile, laugh, walk, hug, dance or tell the little girl who-was-not-little-anymore that he loved her.

            And so she went to the side of the great man. When she walked into the room and saw him, he looked small and not strong at all. He looked at her and tried to speak, but he could not.

            The little girl did the only thing she could do. She climbed upon the bed next to the great man. Tears ran from both of their eyes and she drew her arms around the useless shoulders of her father.

            Her head on his chest, she thought of many things. She remembered the wonderful times together and how she had always felt protected and cherished by the great man. She felt grief for the loss she was to endure, the words of love that had comforted her.

            And then she heard from within the man, the beat of his heart. The heart where the music and the words had always lived. The heart beat on, steadily unconcerned about the damage to the rest of the body. And while she rested there, the magic happened. She heard what she needed to hear.

            His heart beat out the words that his mouth could no longer say ...

            I love you
            I love you
            I love you
            Little girl
            Little girl
            Little girl
            And she was comforted.



            The stories Bill told about "the old days" never failed to facinate me and I would love to hear it over and over. I will tell you his story for posterity but it will take some time so use the update button below to keep abreast of "Willy's" Adventures and History

            The Early Years
            Dad would tell me about being one of 6 children.

            The Bath:
            There was no heat and there was a wood cook stove in the kitchen. His mother and father would haul great pots of hot water off that stove to a big galvanized pot/tub in the middle of the floor and bather and delice(!!!!) each kid with kerosene every Saturday night

            Turning Over:
            All six kids slept in the same bed. When one turned over they all had to and God help anyone that wet the bed for the other 5 would get em!!

            Uncle Frank and Willys forced independence:
            When a male reached the age of 12 years old he either got a job and brought all the pay home or he left. Willy completed a 5th grade education. His first job was shoveling coal in the big railroad engines!


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