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Bud	Idal
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.	I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.	I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back
I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.	I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.
I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.	I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.	I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.	I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.	I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.	I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.	I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.