Records
of Wrongs by Pat Nordman
"Love ... keeps no
records of wrongs" 1 Corinthians 13:5 NIV |
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And above all things have fervent love for one another, for
love will cover a multitude of sins" 1 Peter 4:8
"Hatred stirs
up strife, but love covers all sins" Proverbs 10:12
"He who
covers a transgression seeks love ... " Proverbs 17:9a
Oh, let us engrave these verses on our hurting hearts! These are the verses that, with
God's help, can uphold us and help us to renew our commitment to God Himself, as well as
to those who need and deserve our cherishment. Love, in spite of how we feel about the who
or the what or the why ... ! What a monumental invitation into the very chambers and the
character of the Father. It also takes monumental courage, with emphasis on the mental,
for it is taking hold of the will to love, even as God loves, in spite of what has
happened--and in place of spite.
One of the biggest stumbling blocks to love is the records we keep of wrongs. Our precious
God covers our sins and He asks us to forget the things--including sins, both ours and
others--that are behind, and go on with His love and mercy. "God was in Christ
reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them ... " 2
Corinthians 5:19. Can't we do for others that which God does for us: write wrongs in
ashes? Too often we keep a record of the "sins" which God has already put away
from Him, "as far as the east is from the west" (Psalm 103:12). Our heart is
blackened with the soot of another's trespasses and now and then we sweep up a bit of it
and rub our hands and minds in it, and then ask God for forgiveness for our
meanness--again. Instead, let us pray for the grace to reconcile and wipe the record clean
forever!
"[The orchid] covers the deformity with its own loveliness, absorbs all foul
exhalations and turns them into the perfume of its own sweet flowers. Charity is this
beautiful orchid, covering human frailty, clearing away harsh, suspicious, and cruel
slanders; breathing forth merciful judgments, compassionate sympathy." (James Neill.)
What an extraordinary thought this is, that we can cover the imperfections of our lives
with God's orchids of mercy and hope, and He will do the rest for us.
"For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the
world through Him" (John 3:17). What comfort it is to know that God sent His Son to
save us, not to disapprove of us. Would that we did the same for each other. Jesus said
"Then neither do I condemn you ... Go now and leave your life of sin" (John
8:11). He even wrote in the dust the sins of the Pharisees, who were so ready to judge.
"If You, O Lord, kept a record of sins ... who could stand? But with You there is
forgiveness .... " (Psalm 130:3,4).
O Father, help us to wipe away records! |