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Where’s The Good?!

by Tim Knappenberger

 

 

The ’98 Spring semester ended this week on Malone College’s campus. There are few places on planet earth that seem more vibrant and full of life than a campus at Spring time. The trees and flowers are in exceptional full bloom this year thanks, in part, to El Nino. Adding to the "Spring-having-sprung" phenomenon are the students. Emerging from an Ohio Winter, 17 - 21 year olds will look for any opportunity to don cut-offs, tank tops, and whatever else puts them in a Spring mood. Frisbees and balls of all sizes and shapes zing through the air. Lovers camp and cuddle on every grassy knoll. It truly is a place just to sit and watch and remember and delight. In the midst of this effervescent scene, though, came a reminder of just how precious and fleeting life can be.

My social science course began in January with 22 students. It ended in May with 21. David was the kind of young man that exuded all of the vibrant descriptions one could pin on a young person. He was 19 years old, a football player, athletically built, dedicated to Christ, and constantly smiling. At his memorial service, his friends and teammates recounted this one consistent characteristic of Dave’s: He never stopped smiling. His coach painted a tender picture of Dave, remembering as he watched Dave at "Little Brothers and Little Sisters Weekend" leading an entourage of five of his younger siblings around campus. "It was like watching a mother duck and her ducklings." Dave was #3 in a family of nine children.

On Thursday, April 30th, just prior to the semester’s end, David died. He had contracted a rare form of meningitis that suddenly ravaged his body and took him from a state of health to one of death in just a span of 12 hours. But David died at home, not at school. This is where David’s tragic story offers us hope and comfort.

Early during the last week of April, David called his mother who runs her own business. He asked her if he could borrow her company van in order to move some of his belongs from school back home. She lovingly, but firmly told him that he knew she couldn’t let him take the van given that her business appointments required her use of it. He understood and hung up to make other arrangements. Later that day, Dave’s mom had something happen that has rarely occurred during her 23 years of running her own business. One of her clients called at the last minute canceling the appointment with her on the following day. Surprised and delighted, she called Dave back and told him he could, in fact, use the van. Dave went home on Wednesday to pick up the van. He "went home" on Thursday to be with his Lord.

In the midst of Dave’s family’s loss, grief, and pain, they have this wonderfully comforting story of how God Almighty reached down from glory and lovingly "tweaked" a few seemingly small and insignificant details in order that this young man would have a few final hours with the family he loved and who loved him. Can anything good come from the untimely and pre-mature death of a 19 year-young man who has yet to experience the fullness of a life well lived? As his coach tells it, between 800 - 900 people flooded and overwhelmed Dave’s small town to pay him final respects. Four people made personal decisions for Christ at his service. Fellow students, friends and teammates gathered in Malone’s Bennett Hall to mourn and celebrate their friend. You see if you can find any good in all of this. With a smile as big and broad as his linebacker shoulders, I can assure you of one thing: David could.

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Rom. 8:28 -NIV)

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."

(Revelation 21:4)

 

David was the kind of young man that exuded all of the vibrant descriptions one could pin on a young person. He was 19 years old, a football player, athletically built, dedicated to Christ, and constantly smiling. At his memorial service, his friends and teammates recounted this one consistent characteristic of Dave’s: He never stopped smiling..

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