I'm reading more and dusting less. 
I'm sitting in the yard and
   admiring the view without
fussing about the weeds in the garden.
 
   I'm spending more time
with my family and friends and less time
   at work.  Whenever
possible, life should be a  pattern of
   experiences to savor,
not to endure.
   I'm trying to recognize
these moments now and cherish them.  I'm
   not "saving" anything;
we use our good china and crystal for
   every special event
such as losing a pound, getting the sink
   unstopped, or the first
Amaryllis blossom.
 
 
   I wear my good blazer
to the market.  My theory is if I look
   prosperous, I can shell
out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries.
   I'm not saving my good
perfume for special parties, but wearing
   it for clerks in the
hardware store and tellers at the bank.
   "Someday" and "one of
these days" are losing their grip on my
   vocabulary.  If
it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to
   see and hear and do
it now.
 
   I'm not sure what my
friends would've done had they known that
   they wouldn't be here
for the tomorrow that we all take for
   granted.  I think
they would have called family members and a few
   close friends. 
They might have called a few former friends to
   apologize and mend fences
for past squabbles.  I like to think
   they would have gone
out for a  Chinese dinner, or for whatever
   their favorite food
was.
 
   I'm guessing; I'll never
know.  It's those little things left
   undone that would make
me angry if I knew my hours were limited.
   Angry because I hadn't
written certain letters that I intended to
   write one of these days.
Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my
   wife/husband and parents
often enough how much I truly love them.
 
   I'm trying very hard
not to put off, hold back, or save anything
   that would add laughter
and luster to our lives.  And every
   morning when I open
my eyes, I tell myself that it is special.
   Every day, every minute,
every breath truly is a gift from God.
 
   If you received this
it is because someone cares for you.  If
   you're too busy to take
the few minutes that it takes right now
   to forward this, would
it be the first time you didn't do the
   little thing that would
make a difference in your relationships?
   I can tell you it certainly
won't be the last.
   Take a few minutes to
send this to a few people you care about,
   just to let them know
that you're thinking of them.
   "People say true friends
must always hold hands, but true friends
   don't need to hold hands
because they know the other hand will
   always be there."
   author unknown
 
