Brenda, today's your birthday and even though you've left this life, I know you've gone on to something better.  I don't want you to be forgotten and I believe you can see this and I want to wish you a Happy Birthday.  We all miss you so much and wish you were here with us.  Jennifer just graduated.  Can you believe it?  She sure is growing up. James has also graduated. I bet your so proud, a college graduate.  Michael is living in Louisiana with Gary.  James and me are getting married June 11th, just 2 more weeks.  No matter how much we change, we will always remember you and love you.  I just wanted you to know that we will always remember the fun times, the hard times, and everything.  I think I think about you more now than ever before.  I guess it's because it's so hard to realize you're gone.  I know you've moved on to a much better place, but still it's hard.  You know, hard to face that you wont see us have our children and get married.  I still remember you asking me when were me and James getting married and you said you better send me an invitation.  That was one of the last things you ever said to me.  I still remember that last day I saw you like it was yesterday, like the story about the turtle you told me about. You were a great person.  You always had the best stuff for us to so at your house.  Remember the "Chopping Mall" or when Michael kept saying phrases from the "Cable Guy". I still do and I wont ever forget you, I promise.