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I listen to my kids and acknowledge their feelings. |
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I understand that both my kids and I will make mistakes. I am
not afraid to say "I'm sorry" when the mistake is mine. |
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I am clear and consistent about discipline. I use "I"
statements to express my thoughts and feelings and I avoid "you" statements that
blame, shame, label, or ridicule my kids. |
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I encourage my kids to be independent, but I make sure I'm
available if they need me.
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I use the same good manners with my kids that I would with an
adult. This means saying "please" and "thank you." |
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I am teaching my kids valuable lessons
such as problem solving, communication, sharing and respect for themselves and others. |
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My behavior with my kids leaves no doubt in their minds that
they are loved.
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I honor each of my kids' unique abilities and personalities,
allowing them to be different. |
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I trust my kids and I always keep my promises, so my kids will
trust me. I don't make promises I can't keep. |
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I encourage my kids to pursue what they're good at, not what I
wish they were good at. |
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I am quick to compliment my kids. |
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I refrain from comparing my kids to someone else, even to a
sibling. |
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I am teaching my kids right from wrong. |
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I help my kids to set their own goals.
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I take care of myself so I have plenty of energy for my kids.
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