The Fifty Percent Solution
By William Collinge, Ph.D. from
Recovering from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome: A Guide to Self-Empowerment(Putnam,
1993)
Virtually every person I have known
with CFS can relate to the experience of over-doing on "a good day"
and then "crashing". There is however, an effective way to work
with energy patterns rather than against them. I call it "the fifty
percent solution", and it has proven very helpful for many patients.
It goes as follows:
When you find yourself on a good day or in a period of remission, make
an assessment of how much you feel you can do. For example, though up to
now you have been able to exercise only very little, you may feel confident
that you can walk a half mile with no problem. Following this method, you
would walk a quarter mile, and then stop. Then for the next day or two,
you very closely observe the impact this has had on your body.
If you relapse, your assessment must be adjusted downward on your next
good day. If you feel fine, you may repeat this process a few times, each
time limiting yourself to fifty percent of what you feel capable of doing.
As your confidence grows, you may feel capable of walking a mile, in which
case you would try a half mile, followed again by a close monitoring of
your body's responses. Never take the attitude of challenging your limits.
The essence of the fifty percent solution is that you are spending half
the energy you feel is available, and you are investing the other half
in your body's healing process. It takes energy to heal. Energy that is
spent outwardly is not available inwardly to energize your healing process.
You are investing in a savings program that collects interest. Let your
wealth grow, rather than spending every penny you find in your pocket.
It takes some self discipline to hold back in this way. But, to borrow
a phrase from the field of psychiatry, a "flight into health"
is often followed by a relapse. The stengthening of your resistance takes
time and patience.
As you move further toward recovery, your assessment of your available
energy will gradually rise. As you continue observing the fifty percent
solution on your good days, you will discover that your periods of remission
lengthen, and that the severity of your relapses gradually dimishes.
Recovery demands that you tune in to your body and truly respect the need
to pace yourself, and invest some energy inwardly. The fifty percent solution
has served as a useful guide line for many former PWC's along the road
to recovery.
TIPS FOR OVER-DOERS
If you're a moderate or extreme over-doer, the following
tips can help you put things in perspective:
SLOW DOWN. Make a concious effort to eat, talk, walk and drive more slowly.
Give yourself extra time so you're not always rushing.
KNOW WHEN TO DRAW THE LINE. When you'realready over-loaded, don't take
on any other projects.
LEARN TO DELEGATE. Let others share the load - you don't have to do everything
yourself. If you delegate, you'll have more energy and the end result will
be better for everyone.
WORK SMARTER, NOT LONGER. Be organized, but don't let your schedule run
your life.
COME UP FOR AIR. Take frequent breaks: Short walks or meditating for a
few minutes can help you unwind and clear your head.
REBUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. Take time for heart-to-heart talks with colleagues,
friends and family.
DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. Travel to a new place, find a new hobby, or just
take a different route.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Eat properly, get enough sleep and exercise regularly.
PUT THE RITUALS BACK IN YOUR LIFE. Take time to recognize your accomplishments
and reward yourself. Celebrate special occassions with enthusiasm.
The Fifty Percent Solution and Tips
for over-doers were taken from You, ME & Us, April 1995
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