The Flaming Chalice
The Unitarian Universalist Church of Valdosta
http://www.oocities.org/SoHo/1918/
 
 
Jack Ford - Minister Janet Andersen - R.E. Director
Dee Tait - President René Kerr - Treasurer
Steve Andersen - Vice-president Martha Horowitz - Secretary
Dorelan Miller - Youth Ambassador Carol Stiles - Newsletter Ed.
 

What's going on....                                             March 1998
Sat Feb. 28 8:00 AM - 
4:00 PM
Super Saturday Seminar (S3), at the church
Sun Mar. 1
9:30 AM
10:45 AM
R.E. - Youth and Adult 

Service - Jack Ford, Einstein and The Lizard 

(Freedom and Wilderness)

Tues Mar. 3
11:00 AM
Break Bread Together meal delivery
Tues Mar. 3
7:00 PM
Women's Group at the church
Sat. Mar. 7
7:00 PM
Games night!!
Sun Mar. 8
9:30 AM
10:45 AM
R.E. - Youth and Adult 

Service - Brad Bergstrom, Nature Walk at the church-in-the-woods 

(VSU Dept. of Biology)

Sat Mar. 14
4:00 PM
Interbeing Meditation Service, Jack Ford
Sun Mar. 15
9:30 AM
10:45 AM
R.E. - Youth and Adult 

Service - Jack Ford, Search for Truth and Meaning

Tues Mar. 17
7:00 PM
Women's Group at the church
Sun Mar. 22
9:30 AM
10:45 AM
R.E. - Youth and Adult 

Service - Ted Santos, Euthanasia

(South Georgia Medical Center, Valdosta) *tentative dates

Sun Mar. 29
9:30 AM
10:45 AM
R.E. - Youth and Adult 

Service - Roberta George, Yoga* 

(Lowndes/Valdosta Cultural Arts Center)

Tues Mar. 31
11:00 AM
Break Bread Together meal delivery
 

Coffee House II - a great success! We did it - again! About 80 people enjoyed four hours of entertainment and fun last Saturday, at our second coffeehouse - first one in the new building! Many thanks to René, Molly, and Doug, and to everyone who helped to prepare and worked during the coffeehouse. Let's do it again - soon! But first, ahh-h-h, March, not quite so busy.....but much to do! 


March Games Night

Saturday, Mar. 7, 7:00 p.m. Come, relax, after a busy month of UU activities. Bring a friend, a game, a snack to share if you wish, and a dollar donation. The games begin around 7:00 p.m. and will continue until….? Call René Kerr or Julie Halter for more information.
 


Interbeing Meditation Service

Jack Ford will lead another Zen Buddhist meditation service on Saturday, Mar. 14, at 4:00 p.m. at the church. The service is based on the Order of Interbeing of Vietnamese Buddhist Thich Nhat Hahn, and includes a reading of the precepts with time for quiet personal reflection in a meditative atmosphere. The 14 precepts are included in this newsletter, for your contemplation. All are welcome and invited to attend the service. 

Meditation Group

A group has gathered informally at the church a few times to meet for meditation, or discussion and support of meditation. If you are interested in knowing more about this group, please call Ann Bachrach. 

History of God, continued

Adult Religious Education

Adult R.E. will continue with "A God for Reformers," Chapter 8 of the book, History of God by Karen Armstrong on Sunday, Mar. 1, at 9:30 a.m. The discussion is led by Hue Jacobs. 

LAMP needs donations !

Please continue to bring non-perishable food items to the church and they will be delivered to the Lowndes Associated Ministries to the People program for persons in need. 

Super Saturday Seminar - S3 comes to Valdosta! Feb. 28

UU-Valdosta will host the North Region of the Florida District UU for a Super Saturday Seminar, on February 28, 1998. S3 is a day-long seminar for members and friends to gain a greater understanding of Unitarian Universalism. The day includes the following seminars:

Worship: The Art of Sunday Services

Leader - Rev. Barbara Child, Tampa

Religious Education:

Leader - Sara Reece, RE Coordinator, UU Church of Tallahassee & Campus Ministry

Finance:

Leader - Ed Porteus, President, Florida District of the UUA

Leadership:

Leader - Rev. Mary Higgins, District Executive, Florida District of the UUA

Each congregation is asked to send teams of 4-5 people to participate in workshops in each of four areas of church life listed above. The seminar in Valdosta is one of three being held in the district this winter (the other two are in Miami and Clearwater, FL). The S3 in Valdosta is coordinated by Nancy Bass with local arrangements coordinated by Dee Tait. Contact Dee to see what needs to be done to help host this day-long seminar in Valdosta! 


Check out the Website for UU-Valdosta!

http://www.oocities.org/SoHo/1918/

Send your e-mail address to Carol Stiles (cranfun@peachnet.campus.mci.net). If you wish to receive the newsletter electronically, let Carol know. 


Book Suggestion on the Table!

Hue Jacobs has suggested the following book to bring back our book discussion/potluck events. The book is titled The Holographic Universe, by Michael Talbot (1991, Harper Collins). Pick it up at your favorite bookstore and we'll pick a date in March or April for the discussion 

Women's Group

Women's Group meets the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Bring a snack to share, if you wish. If you have a topic for discussion or an activity (art, craft, service, etc.) you would like to share, or would like to lead the group for an evening, just let us know (Julie, Carol, Dee, etc.). Generally, we meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday, but with enough notice (i.e., in time to get it in the newsletter), we could also meet on another night of the week, if Tuesday doesn't work for you. We are also still open for suggestions for books to read....
Recent and Upcoming
Birthdays

Kristy Montgomery 3/5 Dorelan Miller 3/9
Delane Slone 3/13 Meredith Tatch 3/26
René Kerr 3/29 Soren Andersen 3/26 
Leif Andersen 3/26 
(okay, these two are twins....)



Tai Chi Now meets at the church-in-the-woods!

Two nights a week, 5:30 p.m., currently Monday and Wednesday, with ongoing classes after the beginners' classes. Contact Dennis Bogyo or Luana Goodwin, for more information and future schedule.


Jack-in-the-Pulpit
Jack-in-the-pulpit
Who is in charge of Holidays this year, I want to know? What is the big idea, putting Valentine's Day right after Friday 13th? That was a rough one, I must say. Could be worse though. What if it was the other way around?

I had a great weekend with you in Valdosta. Our Interbeing Worship Service was attended by six adults Saturday, and four of them were new to the experience. Three of our children also joined us. They entertained themselves with crafts and games. Afterward, we planned a kite flying session, but that never got off the ground. The only winded thing was me, from running around the field.

You should find a copy of the Fourteen Precepts with this newsletter. I offer them for you to put up as a meditation tool. Or study them and bring your ideas to our Interbeing Service, which we plan to hold on the third Saturday of every month.

I hope you have (or had) tremendous fun and success with the Coffee House. My heart will be here with you, but the rest of me is forced to run away to Mardi Gras. Oh darn!

signed, Jack

Love and Peace.

I'll see you February 28th for Super Saturday! 


UU in The Pines

....a year round, rustic Conference Center in West Central Florida's rolling hills, 40 miles north of

Tampa. Thirteen acres with towering oaks and pines houses sleeping, dining and workshop

facilities. Home cooked meals, outdoor adventures, and quiet, rural atmosphere renew body, mind

and spirit. Groups and individuals welcome.

Contact: 7029 Cedar Lane Brooksville FL 34601

uupines@pro-scat.cts.com (More info to follow when I find the link on the UUA website!) 


Points from the President

"Home is where the heart is," someone said. Five years ago, Unitarian Universalism was new to me, but when I came to the UU Church of Valdosta, it felt like "home."

Two years later, I had the good fortune of being able to retire from my job and travel a great deal -something I had not done before, other than numerous job-related trips.

As I travel, certain facets of my life sustain me and prevent me from feeling dislocated. One of the most sustaining is finding the nearest UU Church after I arrive at my destination. Some of the churches that come to mind are Clearwater and Naples in Florida and then in Pennsylvania, one that started in a place that had previously been a high school lunchroom, and another more suburban church on the Bucks and Montgomery County line near Philadelphia.

Most recently, the nearest church was the large First Unitarian Church of Philadelphia, established in 1796 as the first Unitarian Universalist Church in the United States. I had delayed going to the First Church, because I thought it would take longer to drive into Center City Philadelphia (which proved not to be the case), but also probably feeling that it might not have the same friendly atmosphere as the other two smaller churches in the area. I was so pleasantly surprised. The First Church topped them all in friendliness and welcoming atmosphere, so I continued to go back to the church services and social events there.

The moral to this story is that home really is where the heart is, and in my way of thinking, home, heart and UU churches are somewhat synonymous.

-- Dee Tait, President 


Northeast Cluster Spring Meeting: "Yesterday - Today - Tomorrow"

The Florida District Northeast Cluster Spring Meeting will be hosted by UU Fellowship of Gainesville, on March 21, 1998 (in their new building!), 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.. The keynote speaker and discussion leader will be Rev. Mary Chulak Higgins, Florida District Executive. Panel members will include Rev. Jack Donovan (minister, Gainesville Fellowship), and Mary Louise DeWolf-Hurt, UU Fellowship of Marion County (also a founder and charter member of our church here in Valdosta!). Registration is $10.00 per person, and includes light breakfast, refreshments, and lunch. Registration forms are available in the church. For more information, call UU Gainesville or see Dee or Carol.

Religious Education (R.E.) Classes

All R.E. classes meet at 9:30 a.m., Sundays, before the 10:45 a.m. service. The children's R.E. classes continue with their respective curricula. The curriculum for Class 1 (elementary students through 4th grade) is We Believe, Learning and Living our UU Principles. The curriculum for Class 2 (5th through 8th grade) is Travel in Time. Both curricula are put out by UUA and concentrate on the seven UU principles.

Break Bread Together

Don't forget that we deliver meals for the Break Bread Together program the 1st and 5th Tuesday of each month. The people who receive these meals are always appreciative - of the food and of the personal contact with those delivering the meals. Contact Dee Tait for more information. 

What's Your Viewpoint?

The following message was posted on the

UUA Web site: http://uua.org/

A Message From JOHN BUEHRENS, President of the Unitarian Universalist Association

RE: THE CRISIS WITH IRAQ
Like many of you, I finished listening to President Clinton's statement concerning Iraq and was reminded of what Thoreau said at the time of the Mexican War: "Blessed are the children, for they have not read the President's message."
Many Unitarian Universalists will oppose the use of military force. For many in our family of faith, such opposition is a matter of consistency and conscience. Like conscientious objectors in other eras, such opponents of militarism deserve our respect and support.
Unlike Quakers and other religious communities committed to a consistent peace witness, Unitarian Universalism also includes many individuals who believe that military force is sometimes, sadly, necessary. I am one such person.
In recent decades three Unitarian Universalists have served as U.S. Secretary of Defense -- Elliot Richardson, William Perry, and now, William Cohen. Those who take on such daunting responsibilities also deserve our respect and support, as do all the men and women who serve in our military.
The crisis in Iraq seems to me like a police hostage crisis. Saddam Hussein holds innocent men, women and children within his country, along with weapons of mass destruction dangerous not only to them, but to the entire neighborhood and to the world community.
The resolutions of the United Nations must be enforced. The failure of the UN's predecessor, The League of Nations, was a direct result of its failure to enforce its resolutions against aggressive dictators and terrorist regimes. The Secretary General, responding to members of the Security Council reluctant to see force used, will use every diplomatic tool available to him to resolve the crisis. Let us hope that he is successful. If he is not, let us pray that the use of force is as it should be: proportional to the goals of the UN, with minimal impact on civilians. In my judgment, the consequences of diplomatic failure will belong squarely with Saddam Hussein, as will those of any attempt to use civilians as human shields. Such tactics are truly those of a ruthless dictator.
I do not ask every Unitarian Universalist to think alike in this complex matter. I do ask that we maintain the bonds of love and respect within our family of faith and in every public discussion. May freedom of conscience, reasoned discussion, and tolerance of differing perspectives be the method by which we teach one another to be persons of moral character and spiritual leadership. And may we serve, each in our own way, that world of justice and peace for which we all yearn, together.
--John A. Buehrens
President, Unitarian Universalist Association
February 17, 1998 


A Note From the Newsletter Editor

Deadline for April issue:
March 15

Contact:

Carol Stiles

c/o UU-Valdosta

1951 East Park Ave., Valdosta, GA, 31602

e-mail: cranfun@peachnet.campus.mci.net


UU Activities and Announcements

Check the bulletin boards in the church and R.E. building for more announcements and information on the following events:

February 28

Super Saturday Seminar (S3)

North Region, hosted by UU-Valdosta

March 1

Deadline for nominations for Florida District awards.

March 6 - 8

UUA Renaissance Module on UU History, held at UU Fellowship of Lakeland, FL.

March 13 - 15

Creating a Jubilee World, an Anti-Racism workshop, sponsored by Community UU Church, Daytona Beach, FL

March 21

Northeast Cluster Meeting, Gainesville, FL

(see page 4 of this newsletter for more info)

March 21

FL -UU Women and Religion workshop: The Voice as a Curative Instrument - a healingsong circle workshop for women. With Kay Gardner. UU Church of St. Petersburg, FL

March 20 - 22

Choir Formation Workshop at UU Church of Brevard, West Melbourne, FL

April 17 - 18

Florida District Annual Meeting, Gainesville

May 22-24

Women and Religion Retreat

(location to be decided)

June 25 - 30, 1998

General Assembly meeting of the Unitarian Universalist Association, Rochester, NY

July 28 - Aug 1, 1998

Southeast Unitarian Universalist Summer Institute (SUUSI '98), Radford University, Radford, VA 


Photo contest:

A photo contest is being held in conjunction with the UUA General Assembly meeting in Rochester, NY, (the "World's Imaging Centre, home of Kodak and other companies). The theme is "Individuals: Unique and in Community." Entries are due April 3, 1998 in the form of 35-mm slides. Complete guidelines and an entry form are posted in the church. 

The Mountain

Retreat and Learning Center is an independent affiliate of the Unitarian Universalist Association. Located atop Little Scaly Mountain near Highlands, NC, (about two hours from Atlanta), The Mountain offers many kinds of youth camps, workshops and weekend retreats for all ages, (and for many different focus topics), as well as a place for congregations to hold retreats.

The website address is:

http://themountain.uua.org/mountain

Some examples and dates for 1998: (Note: list has been updated since last newsletter!)

Senior High, Mar. 6-8, 1998 Questioning (LGBTQ Con for Young Adults, age 18-30), Mar. 27 - 29 May 1-3 (for daughters, age 11-18, and their moms) (women's spirituality and history)

Youth camps for different age groups (and with different focuses) are scheduled for different times during the summer. See the flyers in the church or contact Carol for more info. 


The Fourteen Precepts of Interbeing: Fourteen Guidelines for Engaged Buddhism (by Thich Nhat Hanh)

1. Do not be idolatrous about or bound to any doctrine, theory, or ideology, even Buddhist ones, Buddhist systems of thought are guiding means; they are not absolute truth.

2. Do not think that the knowledge that you presently possess is changeless, absolute truth. Avoid being narrow-minded and bound to present views. Learn and practice nonattachment from views in order to be open to receive others' viewpoints. Truth is found in life and not merely in conceptual knowledge. Be ready to learn throughout your entire life and to observe reality in yourself and in the world at all times.

3. Do not force others, including children, by any means whatsoever to adopt your views, whether by authority, threat, money, propaganda, or even education. However, through compassionate dialogue, help others renounce fanaticism and narrowness.

4. Do not avoid contact with suffering or close your eyes before suffering. Do not lose awareness of the existence of suffering in the life of the world. Find ways to be with those who are suffering, including personal contact, visits, images and sounds. By such means, awaken yourself and others to the reality of suffering in the world.

5. Do not accumulate wealth while millions are hungry. Do not take as the aim of your life fame, profit, wealth, or sensual pleasure. Live simply and share time, energy and material resources with those who are in need.

6. Do not maintain anger or hatred. Learn to penetrate and transform them when they are still seeds in your consciousness. As soon as they arise, turn your attention to your breath in order to see and understand the nature of your anger and hatred and the nature of the persons who have caused your anger and hatred.

7. Do not lose yourself in dispersion and in your surroundings. Practice mindful breathing to come back to what is happening in the present moment. Be in touch with what is wondrous, refreshing, and healing both inside and around you. Plant seeds of joy, peace and understanding in yourself in order to facilitate the work of transformation in the depths of your consciousness.

8. Do not utter words that can create discord and can cause the community to break. Make every effort to reconcile and resolve all conflicts, however small.

9. Do not say untruthful things for the sake of personal interest or to impress people. Do not utter words that cause division and hatred. Do not spread news that you do not know to be certain. Do not criticize or condemn things of which you are not sure. Always speak truthfully and constructively. Have the courage to speak out about situations of injustice, even when doing so may threaten your own safety.

10. Do not use the Buddhist community for personal gain or profit or transform your community into a political party. A religious community, however, should take a clear stand against oppression and injustice and should strive to change the situation without engaging in partisan conflicts.

11. Do not live with a vocation that is harmful to humans and nature. Do not invest in companies that deprive others of their chance to live. Select a vocation that helps realize your ideal of compassion.

12. Do not kill. Do not let others kill. Find whatever means possible to protect life and prevent war.

13. Possess nothing that should belong to others. Respect the property of others, but prevent others from profiting from human suffering or the suffering of other species of the Earth.

14. Do not mistreat your body. Learn to handle it with respect. Do not look on your body as only an instrument. Preserve vital energies (sexual, breath, spirit) for the realization of the Way. (For brothers and sisters who are not monks and nuns:) Sexual expression should not take place without love and a long-term commitment. In sexual relationships, be aware of future suffering that may be caused. To preserve the happiness of others, respect the rights and commitments of others. Be fully aware of the responsibility of bringing new lives into the world. Meditate on the world into which you are bringing new beings.

 

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