Courrier
du coeur 
from the 6th to the 13th of March 98
My problem is that I'am in love with my boss (I think so because I'm thinking of him everyday, I miss him when he is on vacation and I'm wishing that we could be lover one day but this relation cannot be serious because I don't want think(g?) change with my husband).
The think(g?) that disturb me is that I have a strong feeling that he feeels the same way like me (because he's worried when I'm upset at work). We make a good team at work. I tried to let him know in someway that I'm interested in him by making jokes about an intimate relationship between us. I believe he knows that I'm interested in him. But the thing is when we are alone, we act like strangers as if we were ambarrassed in front of this situation. Another thing is that he never proposes a date or try to know me better.
Do you think that he is interested in me? Do you think it is because I am a married woman and he is my boss that could make our relation more difficult?
Furthemore, there is a girl who came at work for having lunch with him. I was so sad that day.
I'm very confused in my feeling. What sould I do?
Maybe I make a mistake about his feeling. What do you think?
Thank you in advance for responding me.
(M., from France)
Hi!
You think too much and don't speak enough!
What you feel IS NOT necessary what you think, try to make the difference.
The question is the choice you made when you decided to get married. Everything is OK with your husband? or...
If you want to know what your boss feels, ask him, try to have a frank discussion about your relationship, what it is in the reality, and what it could be. And you'l know the truth.
It is as simple as this.
I stay ready to hear from you again.
Maurice Matthey