A social club for spankers who prefer a traditional approach

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The Southern Spanking Society was formed in the Fall of 1997. We were tired of hearing that if you lived in or could conveniently travel to LA, Chicago, NYC, etc. you could participate with such groups. On the theory that southern fannies are just as deserving as those in other areas, we decided to start a group here. Most of our members live within four hours of Chattanooga, which we call our geographic center, even though we have never had a member who lived there.

Many of our members are college graduates in various professions. But, if you work in the trades or do clerical work, you are also welcome. We are not snooty!

Our get togethers are held at various places (motels, resorts, members homes) in the Southeast, when and where the membership chooses.

We accept new members through application. If after reading our about us, you find you share our interests, please apply for membership.


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Our Objectives

To meet others who enjoy spanking as much as we do and to share our spanking interests in a social setting. To support each other. To provide a non-intimidating atmosphere where people with an interest in spanking can meet and mingle without any pressure to do anything.

To provide safe and sane regular social gatherings for spanking enthusiasts for the purposes of meeting kindred spirits.

To offer a comfortable support group and social setting for spanking enthusiasts who prefer a domestic, nurturing, traditional, playful, sensuous and respectful approach to spanking.

To encourage good will and respect towards all interests in the scene. We make no judgments on anyone's preferences and ask the community to respect our right to fulfill a very specific need of our own.

More about us:

1) We are not a swingers group.

2) The reasonable consumption of alcohol will be accepted. Alcohol abuse will result in expulsion from the group. This is for safety.

3) Our primary interest is in M/F spanking.

4) The group is non-commercial, there are no dues, fees or initiation. All expenses are personal.

5) We are not a dating service! If you are looking for romance you are in the wrong place. Our interest is spanking. While singles may meet another single at our get togthers, that is the "person of their dreams" and they may sail off into the sunset in blissful harmony - don't join us for romance only.


Read this before you apply for membership:

Though spanking is often sheltered under the BDSM umbrella - and rightly so - it is a complete interest in and of itself, and need not be thought of as a prelude to or a substitute for other BDSM activities. The practice of adult spanking is deliciously varied, from punishment to erotic, from hand-spanking to skilled application of implements ranging from the homely hairbrush to the awe-inspiring cane. The focus of this group is principally of men spanking women in a social setting. There are bdsm groups in almost every hamlet. That's not us. We are not interested in leather, heavy bondage, dungeons, etc.

You must live in AL, GA, KY, MS, TN, the FL panhandle or the western Carolina's.

You must be over 39. There is no upper age limit. Our average age is 44.

We are now accepting couples only. [Marriage is not required]

We seek members that will attend our parties - So if your time, desire to interact or ability to travel is limited, this group is NOT for you. You need to be a person who likes group interaction. If that's you and you like to make some friends, we welcome you.

There are many fine folks who are married to spouses who are not into spanking. If that is you and your spouse would attend parties with you and join in the social aspects, we will welcome your application. Otherwise, you have our regrets.

To apply for membership

Revised November 25, 2003