When my daughter started school, the teachers kept telling me that she just wasn't trying, she was lazy, and willfully disobedient. This didn't make any sense to me, because at home she was very eager to please. While I didn't rule out the fact that it was possible, I started looking for other answers as well.


What could be wrong?

After doing lots of research, and SEVERAL doctors, it was discovered that she had a neurological disorder called Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.

LINKS

ADD Support

National Attention Deficit Disorder Association

Chidren and Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder

About ADD

We have spent several years tying to find the right medication, at the right dosage, as she grows and changes into a young woman.


Another problem started showing itself, as she gained more and more control over her ADHD. Again, I was told that she just wasn't trying, and that she was willfully refusing to write correctly.

In second grade, the teacher would often keep her in during recess, making her rewrite her assignments.


Writing and many different things that involve her working with her hands, such as cutting meat, brushing her hair, tieing shoes, coloring pictures, using scissors, etc. were all very difficult for her.

Again, I found myself doing research and asking questions. From the research I had done, it looked like she might have a learning disorder called DYSGRAPHIA. On January 21,1999, she was officially diagnosed with this disorder.

LINKS

About Dysgraphia

Dysgraphia

Good Dysgraphia Page

How I Learn

LD Online

Specific Learning Disabilities

Gifted and LD

Amy was diagnosed formally with Asperger's Syndrome the summer of 1999. There are some links to different sites talking about Aspergers.


ASPEN of America


Autism Society of America


Online Asperger Syndrome Information and Support


There is lots of hope for kids with these difficulties. But the best hope, is education about what these disabilities are and are not. It is really hard sometimes to weed out the truth from the fiction, and it can be difficult not listen to so called professionals, and believe in your child, and trusting your "gut feelings".

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