Actually, no, that's not how I feel about life, I feel life is what you make of it. You wanna be happy, then make yourself happy. You wanna be miserable, then you'll be miserable. And if you wanna move 2500 miles to be with the one you think you're head over heels in love with, then for GOD'S SAKE, DO IT!!!!!!!!!!! (I may piss someone off by saying that, and you know who you are, but oh well, it's my page, I'll say what I want) I'll quote James Hetfield when he sang "You only live once, so take hold of the chance, or you'll end up like others, same song and dance"All I'm gonna tell you, in the end, it don't mean shit when we reach the pearly gates or the brimstone pits how little we did, all that matters is that you lived your life to it's fullest, took everyday like it was your last, only then can you experience life for what it is.... the greatest gift of all.