If u find urself in love with someone who does not love u,
be gentle  with urself. There is nothing wrong with u.
Love just didn't  choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If u find someone else in love with you and u don't love him,
feel  honoured that love came and knocked at ur door,
but gently refuse the gift  u cannot return.
Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,
even if our lives and ways are different.
If u fall in love with another, and he falls in love with u,
and then  love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame.
Let it  go. There is a reason and there is a meaning You will know in time.

Remember that u don't choose love. LOVE CHOOSES U.
All u can really  do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into ur life.
Feel the way it fills u to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in u.
Give it to others  who deem poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around u in anyway  u can.
This is where many lovers go wrong.
Having been so long w/o  love, they understand love only as a need.
They see their hearts as empty  places  that  will be filled by love,
and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
Love has its own time, its own  seasons, and its own reason for coming and going.
U can't bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying.
U can only embrace it when  it arrives and give it away when it comes to u.
But if it chooses to leave  from ur heart or from the heart of ur lover,
there is nothing  u can do and there is nothing u should do.

                                                                                       Author Unknown.