It is a mystery why we fall in love.
It is a mystery how it happens.
It is a mystery when it comes.
It is a mystery why some love grows and
it is a mystery why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes,
but you will never do anymore than take the life out of the experience.
Just as life  itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and
electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of interests
and attractions and commonalities  that two people share.
 And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time,
so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life --
the gift of love will come to you in full flower,
and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty.
This is the dream we all share.
More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they often try to grasp the love
and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift that is freely given
and a gift  that just as freely moves away.
 When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of
love leaving,they try to desperately reclaim the  love that is lost
rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers.
They want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other person
no longer love them, or they  try to get their lover to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again.
They blame their circumstances and say  that if they go far away
and start a new life together, their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened.
But there is no meaning beyond the love itself,
and until they accept its own mysterious  ways,
they live in a sea of mystery.
You need to know about this love and to accept it.
You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.

The first blush of new love is filled with overflowing,
but as their love cools,they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who  generates love and
instead becomes someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,
and that it can be made to grow  only by giving it away.
Remember this and keep it to your heart.

Love always had been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it  came to  live for a moment in ur life.
If u keep ur heart open it will  come again.
Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more  intelligently.