Loving Each Other: Some Solicited Advice
(excerpt from the book Loving Each Other by Leo Buscaglia)

Don't think in terms of forever. Think of now, and forever will take care of itself.
Grow up together, constantly. Expect to invest  a great deal of time and energy in your relationships.
Lasting relationships don't just happen, they are created.
Recognize that all relationships cannot be forever.Recognize their temporary quality,
but continue to act as if they are permanent. Never idealize others.
They will never  live up to your expectations. Take your time. Remove price tags from people.
Everyone has worth; the excitement lies in the discovery of their value.  Don't be afraid of giving.
You can never give too much, if you're giving willingly.
Don't feel as if you are required to spend your every  waking hour with those you love.
 Move aside from time and allow them a separate space, too.
Realize that you always have choices.  It's up to you. Don't hold on to anger, hurt or pain.
They steal your energy  and keep you  from love. There are many times when you may want to give up on a
 relationship, but never give up on relating. Keep the child in you alive and playing.
See people as good and beautiful, even when they seem  to be trying hard not to appear so.
If you take time to talk together each day you'll never  become strangers. Value yourself.
 The only people who appreciate a doormat  are people with dirty shoes.