Amanda's Advice Page

Amanda's Advice Page Amanda's Advice Page

Are you in need of help?In a serious jam,and don't know what to do?Maybe I can help!(You never know.)Anyway,I'll post all questions/answers here,and at the bottom of the page,I have a form you can fill out.

1).I really like this guy,but so does my friend!What should I do?
-All Saints fan
My Answer:Sorry,miss.But,this is one sure way to ruin your friendship.I was in a situation like this,once and luckily me & my best friend realized our friendship was more important.And,one of the main rules of friendship(in my opinion) is lay off her crush!Liking the same guy will lead to trouble.

2).I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me.I don't know what to do!Please help!
-Hurt and Confused
My Answer:First,make SURE it is TRUE,before you do anything.You don't wanna blame him if it's a lie.If it is true,you might wanna give him a second chance.And if he doesn't change,lose him fast girlfriend!Having a crush/boyfriend should make you happy,and if he doesn't,he's not worth having.But,like I said,make sure it's true before you do anything major.

3).This may seem silly, but it's been troubling me. Me and my boyfriend are planning to get married, but I'm not sure if we can afford our own place, and we can't keep sponging off of my parents!
-C.G
My Answer:Well,it's like I've always heard,"Love and romance without finance,is a nuisance."Well,this is a stumper.I say,that if you work hard enough,it'll pay off!And don't let your boyfriend take advantage of your wallet.(I'm not saying he is,just saying you shouldn't let him.)And,as long as you really love each other,it's all cool!

4).I get really depressed sometimes,and think about suicide alot.My friends are always telling me to cheer up,but that makes me gloomier.Do you have any advice for me?
-Anonymous
My Answer:Yikes girlfriend!Chill chica!I realize that people get depressed sometimes,but suicide is NOT the answer.(Stress NOT)And,realize that your friends only do that because they care about you.I think you should get help.(I mean,from a professional counselor.I'm not a professional.^_-;;)And,even though I don't really know you,if you ever get bummed you can pour your heart out to me..I'm always here..Just E-mail me,or ICQ me.I'll listen.(I'm being sincere.I hate seeing people bummed.)

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