Rape Myths

1. The rapist is a stranger. 80-85% of victims know the rapist.
2. The victim is to blame because she was wearing sexy clothing, because she was drunk, because of her behaviour. No victim is to blame.
3. Rape is an act of sex. NO, it is an act of violence.
4. She wanted it, enjoyed it.

What to do if your friend is raped

1. Don't ask questions, just listen.
2. Believe your friends.
3. Help your friend get medical attention for any of the following: injuries, possible pregnancy, possible STD's and for evidence.
4. Help your friend if she wants to report the rape.
5. Help your friend get a professional counselor.

What to do in a possible rape situation

1. Trust intuition.
2. Stay calm.
3. Respond immediately, say NO strongly.
4. Assess situation- Is it safe to escape? What are your resources? Then, if it is safe you can: fight back physically, make a scene (faint, lie, intimidate).

What to do if you are raped

1. Go to a friend.
2. Go to a hospital.
3. Think about saving evidence.
4. Perhaps report the rape to police.
5. Perhaps press charges.
6. Get counseling help.

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Common characteristics of people who rape

1. Drinks excessively.
2. Talks derogatorily about women- sees women as objects, what women value is unimportant.
3. Controlling and aggressive.

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