No More Hate


A Special Child Named Matthew
bronze bar


I have a very special child, Matthew is his name
And though he's somehow "different", he loves just the same
He loves the same as you or I, from deep within his heart
An affectionate and loving child, he has been from the start

Matthew makes decisions that I don't understand
He gets himself in trouble, gets a reprimand
All who know him love him, for he's a gentle soul
But those who don't can't recognize that evil's not his goal

As he's gotten older, through all these passing years
I've felt a need to shelter him, due to growing fears
That folks will treat him harshly, not knowing him inside
And that one day they'll hurt him, out of stupid pride

This month I heard a story that really made me cry
About a Matthew who'd been beaten - then I heard he died
And somewhere deep inside my heart, a part of me died too
It was horrifying realization that all my fears were true

We like to think we're civilized, but just turn on the news
Ignorance is alive and well - if you're "different", you lose
There are just too many stupid people, insecure and full of hate
With narrow minds and wicked plans, such misery they create

So now I wonder what to do, to protect my precious child
What solace is there in the fact that charges have been filed?
Even if his killers are sentenced to die, it won't bring Matthew back
There are thousands out there just like them, waiting to attack.

Enacting better laws is one thing, but it will not stem the tide
Of hatred-based behaviors, those come from inside
When a man will kill another just because he's not the same
That tells us that WE need to change, our society's to blame.

I want to scream and I want to yell, but what good would it do?
So instead, I wrote this poem, and I'm sharing it with you.
How can we make a difference, where in the world should we start?
Maybe by teaching our children to judge by what's in someone's heart.

Matthew Shepard died for nothing, if we don't heed the call
And take a stance for humankind, at last, for once and for all
We are straight, and we are gay, we're black and we are white
But none of those things matter, when we see with our heart's sight.

             - by Mistress Cara


E-Mail the Author

bronze bar

This page is dedicated to the memory of Matthew Shepard, and created with love for my own Matthew. Matt Shepard was a mother's son, a friend, a sibling, a fellow human taken too soon - and a wake up call to all of us, whatever "group" we belong to. Please, if you have children - teach them to love all people, based on who they are inside. To visit sites dedicated to Matt Shepard, click on either of the graphics here.

Remember Matthew Shepard  Back to Poetry Index  Visit Mattshepard.org

Celebrate  Get Your FREE Homepage Today! Diversity
  Get Your FREE Site today!