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Behaviors Exhibited
If your child exhibits any of these behaviors, he/she may have A.D.D/A.D.H.D. and should be seen by a child psychologist, psychiatrist or referred by a family pediatrician.
Often distracted                                 Can't finish tasks

Disorganized                                     Forgetful

Poor Concentration                           Can't sit still

Restless and bored                             Quick tempered

Daydreamer or lazy                            Impatient or irritable

Motor Mouth                                    Can't work to potential

The following behaviors are what our family dealt with on a daiy basis. It is the compilation of a three year period and included all:
Cursing, spitting, verbal insults and demands
Hitting, punching, kicking, scratching and biting
Suicidal tendancies, trying to hang self, running into oncoming traffic
Setting fires, destroying toys, doors & doorframes, furniture and other peoples property
Threatening and attempting to harm siblings and parents by suffocation or stabbing
Running away, sneaking out through windows by popping the screens out
Hanging from second story balconies, climbing nieghbors roof's
Suspensions from school for throwing chairs, cursing at principal and teachers,
leaving school property, kicked off bus for fighting, refusing to finish or start work
Stealing, lying and manipulation
Nightmares
Hurting self then claiming "abuse"
Urinating on self multiple times daily, wetting bed excessively, urinating in corners
Smearing feces on walls and defecating in public bathrooms (school)
Exposing himself to other children, trying to touch other children
pilfering through cabinets,cuboards,medicine cabinets,purses,and wallets
For many of you The School System is another struggle while enduring these behaviors at home.Because many times the parent is blamed for their childs reactions and behaviors...and suspensions come many times per month,, it is not unusual for a parent to start to dread the phone. In the links I have provided later, you will find agencies that can give you information on your rights as parents and what you can do to assure your child is getting the help he deserves. School districts can give you a lot of hassel when you need to get things done for your child, so I have given you a fomatted letter to copy to start the process of  Individual Assessement through your school.
Our sons Toddler Behaviors
           Ages 1-2.5
Head Banging  
Screaming fits
Tore wallpaper, ripped down crib bumper pads, broke crib into three pieces
Jumped off furniture and high things  
Self destructive
Took apart bedroom lamp, took apart toaster
Hole in wall with head
Mocked discipline  
Lack of attatchment to parents or caretakers
Laughed when yelled at
Yelled when talking                            
Hyperactive
Slow in speech (commonly referred to as "processing problems")
Overreactions to change
Delayed mental and social skills".....the psychologists view of a culmination of things such as: no close friends, fighting with peers and low testing scores.
Little to no interest in human contact: hugging, snuggling 

Update: Children diagnosed with possible Autism follow a listing of 11 known behaviors before the age of 3. Of the 11 listed our son was exhibiting 9 by the age of 2.5 and was first thought to be Austistic. The behaviors he had parallel to Autism are indicated by a red box above.