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                | My
                  father, Albert Frederick McQuaid was born at Long Pointe Lake,
                  Gowganda Ontario on August 19th, 1921.  His parents were
                  farmers, and  when he was a child, they lived in the
                  Picton area of Prince Edward County.  Dad's parents were
                  members of the Morman Church.  He was ordained as a
                  Deacon in the Aaronic Priesthood on September 11th, 1935. |  
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                  mother, Dorothy May Beaton was born at North Bay Ontario on
                  February 27th, 1922.  When mom was born, she was very
                  tiny and not expected to live.  She was fed barley water
                  and sugar to strengthen her, and Doctor Campbell would visit
                  the home every day to check on her progress.  The doctor
                  wanted Grandma and Grandpa to let him take mom go to live with
                  him in his home where he could better care and provide for her
                  but they did not allow that to happen. |  
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                | Dad
                  and Mom were married in Dad's parent's home at 36 Ferndale
                  Avenue, Toronto Ontario by David A Smith - Minister from
                  Church of Jesus Christ & Latter Day Saints on October
                  30th, 1941.  Witnesses to the event were Dad's uncle Fred
                  Barnes & his sister  Marion Selina McQuaid Edwards. |  
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                | I
                  was born in Toronto Ontario on Thursday May 28th, 1942 at
                  11:25 PM in the Toronto Western Hospital (Alexander
                  Wing.....Dr. Purdy and Nurse Hamilton). |  
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                | Dad
                  departed for Fredericton New Brunswick with the Governor
                  General's  Horse Guards military corps for training prior
                  to being shipped to Europe where he served in England, France
                  & Holland when I was 2 1/2 months old, on August 13th,
                  1942. |  
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                | My
                  brother Albert George McQuaid was born at 8:30 AM Monday
                  December 13th 1943 at St Joseph Hospital in North Bay Ontario
                  (Dr. D A Campbell & Nurse Allen). He died  that same
                  day due to heart failure.  His complexion was described
                  as being fair, with blue eyes and weighed about 8 lbs. 
                  Grandpa Beaton arranged with Martyn Funeral Home to bury the
                  infant in Terrace Lawn Cemetery, North Bay Ontario. There is
                  no marker on his gravesite, but someday I want to have one
                  placed there in remembrance of him. |  
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                | During
                  the period that dad as serving overseas, Mom and I lived in
                  Toronto Ontario.  Mom worked for Pullen Doll company
                  sewing dolls.  We used to take our food ration books and
                  meat coupons  to Big Bear or Oxenham's grocery store and
                  to Hubbard's meat market to buy  food which was very
                  scarce at the time due to the war. |  
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                | Dad
                  returned home from serving in the second world war in November
                  1946.   Mom and I  greeted Dad at the Coliseum
                  in Toronto Exhibition grounds.  I  waved a white
                  handkerchief that mom had made and embroidered for me with the
                  words "Welcome Home Daddy". The soldiers marched
                  around the coliseum and lined up in alphabetical order by
                  surname.  When they called out the"Mc's", dad
                  came running to where Mom and I were standing waiting for
                  him.  He hugged and kissed us both and mom and dad were
                  crying tears of happiness.   We walked home from the
                  Exhibition grounds.  Dad with his kit-bag over his
                  shoulder and his arm around Mom, and Mom carrying me in her
                  arms. |  
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                | At
                  the time of dad's return to Canada, mom and I were living at
                  446 Ossington Avenue above a dry goods store that was operated
                  by Bill & Thora Rose.  On the evening that dad
                  returned home from overseas, he was greeted by family members
                  and friends. |  
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                | In
                  December 1946, a fire started in the stairwell of the dry
                  goods store below the apartment where we were living. 
                  Firemen came and everyone was led out of the building in their
                  night-clothes to the street below.  The temperature was
                  very cold and icicles formed on the ground and building from
                  the water that the firemen were spraying onto the fire. 
                  Smoke filled the building and soot covered the walls of our
                  apartment from the fire. |  
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                | Dad,
                  Mom and I used to walk to Sunnyside which was an amusement
                  park located at the corner of Queen Street and Roncesvales
                  Avenue.  Dad and I would ride on the flying ship and Dad
                  would hold me tight in his arms so that I wouldn't  fall
                  out of the ride.   Sometimes we would have a glass
                  of honeydew, some carmel popcorn or a candy apple while we
                  were walking around the midway.  One of Dad and Mom's
                  friends, Mrs Brown used give us free candy apples whenever she
                  saw us.  Sometimes  Dad would try his luck at the
                  midway games, and he would win a prize.  I can remember
                  him winning a small plaster bull-dog, a kewpi doll and a
                  balloon whistle with a bamboo stem and a couple of coloured
                  feathers tied to the end |  
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                | When
                  I was just five years old, I went shopping all by myself to
                  Hillier's Drug Store which was located up at the corner of
                  Ossington Avenue and Foxley Street to buy mom a birthday
                  present.  I bought her a tiny bottle of perfume for a
                  quarter. |  
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                | I
                  also used to go to the grocery store for mom.  I usually
                  went to Oxenham's because it was close to home, and also
                  because I went to school with Catherine Oxenham, the grocer's
                  daughter.   One time mom asked me to get some
                  liver.  When I got it home and she opened the package,
                  the meat was all green and starting to go bad so she bundled
                  it back up and I took it back to the store and got my money
                  back.  Another time, mom sent me to the store for some
                  oatmeal.  When I got home and she opened the box, a moth
                  flew out.  We bought some shredded wheat one time, and
                  after the warm water and milk was added, little millworms
                  floated to the surface. |  
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                | After
                  the war, Dad got a job with Len & Fink as a truck
                  driver.  We didn't have much money after the rent was
                  paid, so food was scarce and sometimes we would just have
                  macaroni without any sauce.  Mom would save the fatty
                  drippings from meat, and we would use that instead of
                  butter.   Sometimes Mom would fry a slice of bread
                  in the fat drippings for our dinner because we couldn't afford
                  to buy meat. |  
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                | My
                  playmate at the time, was Donna Marie Rose,  daughter of
                  Bill and Thora Rose.  We were about the same age, and we
                  used to play in front of the store Ossington Avenue that her
                  parents owned or in the laneway behind the store.  One of
                  our favourite places to explore and to visit, was the Lucky
                  Elephant Popcorn factory.   They employees there
                  always had a box of popcorn for Donna and I, and we would be
                  given a prize of our choice from their stockroom. |  
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                | Sometimes,
                  Earl McGraw who was a friend and regular customer of the
                  Rose's would buy Donna and I a bottle of Pepsi Cola and a
                  Neilson's Jersey Milk chocolate bar or a popsicle. Donna and I
                  would sit on the front step to enjoy the treat as we watched
                  the streetcars and traffic pass in front of the store. 
                  One time while we were sitting on the step, a car that was
                  parked just up the street a little ways started to roll
                  forward.   It mounted the curb and it was headed
                  straight for us.  Old  Mr. Sol Friendly, the man who
                  owned the shop next door ran out and stopped the car before it
                  hit us. |  
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                | My
                  sister Betty Anne McQuaid was born on March 9th, 1947 in
                  Toronto General Hospital, Toronto Ontario. |  
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                | While
                  Mom was in the hospital, Dad's uncle Fred came to care for
                  me.   He used to give me a bath every evening before
                  bedtime, in a tub filled with warm water and  Lux soap
                  flakes.   Uncle Fred used a long scrub brush to
                  clean me, and bubbles would fly about everywhere. |  
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                | I
                  started kindergarten at Givens Street Public school in
                  September 1945.  My cousin Marlene used to take Donna and
                  I to school.  Sometimes my cousin Melville Duval would
                  take us.   Melville's brother Donnie was also in my
                  classroom. Some of my other classmates were Billy Whiteside
                  and Bobby Blackburn. |  
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                | On
                  week-ends, Dad, Mom, Betty and I would go for long
                  walks.  Sometimes we would walk to Christie Pits or
                  Bellwoods Park and have a picnic, or we would walk along
                  Dundas Street and up Davenport Avenue to the Planter's Peanut
                  factory and back again. |  
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                | When
                  dad and mom bought a car, we would go for long rides out to
                  Ajax and to Whitby. Sometimes we would get a buttered pecan
                  skyscraper ice-cream cone, or fish and chips.   Dad
                  used to always carry a salt shaker  and a bottle of malt
                  vinegar  in the glove compartment of the car, just in
                  case we bought some french-fries.  His favourite treat of
                  all, was a pork-roll.   We would buy them from the
                  local delicatessen and then drive down to the Exhibition
                  grounds and park by the lake while we ate.  We also used
                  to go down to the Old Mill on the Humber River quite often for
                  a picnic.   One time our car broke down at the
                  Humber River, and we had to walk about five miles back home to
                  Ossington Avenue,  because we didn't have any bus fare to
                  ride home. |  
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                | After
                  working at Len & Fink for quite a while, Dad quit and got
                  a job with Campbell Soup Company in New Toronto.  
                  He used to have to climb inside the big stainless steel soup
                  pots to clean them out. |  
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                | When
                  I was in grade 2, we moved to Wellesley Street.  The
                  house that we moved to was located almost at the end of the
                  street, and there  was a cliff that overlooked Riverdale
                  Zoo.  My playmates and I used to lay on our stomachs and
                  look over the edge of the cliff at the zoo below.  We
                  could see into the polar bear's den, and sometimes you could
                  hear the sound of the animals calling out. |  
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                | I
                  went to Rose Avenue Public School, and used to have to pass in
                  front of the Necropolis Cemetery  and Crematorium. 
                  I was afraid of breathing in the smoke from the Crematorium,
                  so I would run the entire length of the block twice a day on
                  my way to and from school. |  
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                | It
                  was very cold in our apartment during the winter months. 
                  The landlady used to burn bundles of newspaper that had been
                  soaked in water and salt because it was cheaper than wood or
                  coal.   I can remember Uncle Bob visiting us one
                  time. Uncle Bob and I went out to the hardware store to buy
                  some stove pipes so that we could hook up the space heater in
                  our apartment.  While we were out, Mom cooked one of my
                  all time favourite dishes.... curried rice and
                  chicken.  I can still smell and taste that delicious
                  meal today. |  
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                | Dad
                  started working as a Carman for Canadian Pacific Railroad at
                  West Toronto Station in 1949, which were located at
                  corner of Dundas Street and Dupont Avenue in Toronto's
                  Junction area. |  
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                | My
                  brother Larry John McQuaid was born on August 11th, 1949 in
                  Toronto Ontario. |  
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                | On
                  May 10th, 1950 when I returned from school, I found Mom
                  sitting at the top of the steps leading to our apartment
                  crying.   She was holding a telegram that she had
                  received to inform her that Grandpa Beaton had died.  I
                  can recall taking the train with Mom to go up to North Bay for
                  the funeral.  It was a long ride and the train stopped at
                  every little milk-stop along the way to let passengers get on
                  and off. |  
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                | A
                  few months after the funeral, Mom and Dad decided that they
                  would relocate to North Bay to live with Grandma because she
                  was all alone.  Mom, Betty, Larry and I moved to North
                  Bay ahead of dad.  Dad stayed behind and continued to
                  work for the railroad at the West Toronto Car Shops, while he
                  awaited word on his application for a transfer to North
                  Bay.  The transfer was not approved because of the lack
                  of available work in North Bay's Car Shops, so after a few
                  months Dad joined us in North Bay.  While Dad was still
                  working in Toronto, he was boarding at a home on Hook Avenue
                  which was within walking distance of the Car Shops.  He
                  would write to us every week and sometimes, he would send us a
                  parcel containing some candy and maybe a colouring book or
                  small toy. |  
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                | We
                  missed Dad a lot while he was away from us, but when he did
                  join us in North Bay it was great being together again, and he
                  was able to get a job with the  Singer Sewing Machine
                  Company as a sales and serviceman. |  
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                | One
                  of the first things that Mom did when we arrived at Grandma's
                  house, was to enroll me into school at McPhail Street Dr.
                  Carruther's Public School.  Mom wore a navy blue dress
                  with white polka-dots on it, and white high-heeled
                  shoes.  She looked very pretty.  We met the school
                  Principal, Mr. Tom Cummings.  Mr. Cummings and I soon
                  became very good friends, and he used to have me deliver the
                  school mail during the morning recess period.  My grade 2
                  teacher was Mrs. Curren. A very nice lady who lived in a big
                  brick house on King Street. |  
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                | Life
                  as a kid in North Bay was totally different from what life was
                  like in Toronto. The pace was slower
                  in North Bay, but there was always lots to do.  Unlike
                  Toronto, you got to know and to play with all the kids on the
                  block .... Gary & Linda Thompson; Emmeline, Peter &
                  Stella McCool; David & Donald Jacobs; Clifford Collins;
                  David Lascelle; Walter Woodruff; Judy Landry; Ronny Boyer,
                  Lynn Ordage, Marcel & Monica Frechette; Joyce &
                  Barbara Lindsay; Karen Plause,  and our cousins Don, Anne
                  & Billy McGinnis.  We would ride our
                  bikes all around town; play street hockey and baseball in the
                  centre of the road and  hide & seek and tag in the
                  neighbour's yards.  During the summer and fall months,
                  there were potato, weiner and corn roasts in the evenings, and
                  we would catch lightening bugs in Mason Jars.  Sometimes
                  we would pitch tents in the back yard. and have a sleep-out. There were the
                  neighbourhood gangs and rivalry between the Protestants and
                  the Catholics (McPhail & St Rita's schools).  At
                  least once a month there would be an argument that led to a
                  fight, but you could always count on your buddies to come
                  along and bail you out of trouble. Silverwood's Dairy
                  would come around early every morning with their horse and
                  buggy to deliver milk, and the horse would trot along without
                  the driver to tell him when or where to stop.  You could
                  always hear the milk bottles rattling in the metal basket that
                  the milkman used to carry from house to house.  We used
                  to put the milk tickets and sometimes change inside of the
                  empty milk bottle that was left just outside the front door
                  for the milkman to pick up and replace with our daily
                  order.  If the bottle had been washed out and not quite
                  dry when it was placed outside in the cold weather, the
                  tickets and money would freeze inside the bottom of the
                  bottle, and the milkman would be upset.  In the very cold
                  weather, the cream on top of the milk would freeze and swell
                  up so that it would push the cap off of the top of the
                  bottle.   There were always a lot of cats in the
                  neighbourhood, and they would walk from house to house licking
                  the cream that protruded from the top of the milk bottles. In the afternoons,
                  the bakery would make their rounds with fresh bread, buns,
                  pies and cakes.  Like the milkman, they also delivered
                  their goods with a horse and buggy.   In the
                  wintertime, they used a horse-drawn sled instead of the buggy
                  to carry their goods, and us kids used to hang onto the back
                  of the sled to catch a free slide up the street. We didn't have a
                  refrigerator for several years, but we did have an
                  ice-box.  The iceman would make his rounds and during the
                  summer months, all the kids on the block would follow him from
                  house to house, to collect the ice chips that would be on the
                  back of his truck. We had a double lot,
                  and so each spring we would plant a huge garden of potatoes,
                  beans, peas, carrots and cucumbers.   That always
                  meant there a lot of weeding, hoeing, watering  and
                  maintenance for us kids to do on a regular basis.....one thing
                  we soon learned is that you would never say that you were
                  bored, or else you would find yourself out rooting around the
                  garden for weeds . Thanks to the horses, there was always a
                  supply of manure for the plants......and in the winter time,
                  great hockey pucks.  In the early summer, we had to pick
                  the potato bugs off the plants before they ate the flowers,
                  otherwise there would be no potatoes to dig up in the
                  fall.  We would sometimes pick a hundred or more of these
                  little striped bugs at a time from the plants.  In the
                  fall, we would gather up the beans for mom to pickle and dig
                  up the potatoes.  Mom would collect six-quart baskets
                  from the grocery store whenever she could, and then in the
                  fall, Betty, Larry and I would go from house to house selling
                  the fresh potatoes to neighbours.  Unlike most homes in
                  the neighbourhood, we had a huge woodstove in the kitchen and
                  a  Quebec Heater in the living room.   That of
                  course meant a lot of kindling and wood needed to be cut so
                  that our meals could be cooked, and coal had to be shoveled so
                  that our home would be heated during the winter
                  months......Then there were the ashes that needed to be sifted
                  and emptied.   Like I said earlier, there was always
                  lots to be done. |  
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                | Dad
                  used to get paid every Thursday, so that meant every Friday
                  there would be the trip to  Smyth's Grocery Store. 
                  Mom would put together a list of things that were to be bought
                  with clear instructions that I was to make sure that the
                  vegetables were fresh and firm; that the meat was lean with no
                  signs of aging, and that the cans were not dented.  She
                  would count out what she thought the bill should come to, and
                  then hand me the money telling me not to lose it, and to make
                  sure that I also got fifteen cents worth of mixed candy for us
                  kids.  In the cold winter months, she would sometimes
                  telephone Smyth's or Charette's Meat Market, and place the
                  order with them for delivery to our home. |  
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                | We
                  always had a lot of company in our home on week-ends and
                  during the summer months.  There were times, when there
                  were twenty or more people at a time visiting with us. 
                  The weekly regulars were my cousin Don and his wife Claudine,
                  cousins Anne and Billy from next door, and Jimmy and Murial
                  Hands who were friends of my cousin Ronnie. |  
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                | Christmas
                  was a busy time in our home.  For weeks before the big
                  event us kids would read the Eaton's and Simpson catalogues
                  from cover to cover, pointing out to whoever would listen
                  exactly what we would like for Christmas. The mailman in those
                  days used to make his rounds six days a week, and rarely
                  passed by our home without stopping to leave a handful of
                  Christmas cards and mail.  There were always parcels from
                  relatives and friends in England and Holland and that of
                  course meant that we would have to shop and sent off cards and
                  parcels to their homes as well. A couple of weeks
                  before Christmas, Dad would get a tree for our living
                  room.  Sometimes he would cut it himself and other times
                  he would pick it out from one of the corner lots where trees
                  were being sold.  Usually, he would pick out a spruce or
                  a pine tree that was about eight feet tall.  After
                  bringing the tree into the home so that it could thaw out, he
                  would make a stand for it and set it up in a corner so that he
                  could secure it with a bit of twine so that it wouldn't topple
                  over.  Then out would come the treasured Christmas bulbs,
                  lights, garland and icicles from previous years....yes, we
                  used to carefully remove and save the icicles each year so
                  that they could be re-used.   About that same time
                  each year, I would be handed seventy-five cents with
                  instructions that I was to go to Harris Drug Store and either
                  pick up a package of Margarita Cigars or a pack of Pic-a-Pac
                  Pipe Tobacco for Dad. Dad would drag a
                  kitchen chair into the living room to stand on while he
                  carefully placed the star on top of our tree, and he would
                  then place the lights on the tree just so.   Once
                  the lights had been placed on the tree and tested, Dad would
                  sit in his armchair to watch Mom and us kids place the balls
                  and icicles (one at a time) on the tree. Delivery trucks from
                  Eaton's and Simpson's would drop huge boxes off, but they
                  would mysteriously disappear without any trace, and Mom and
                  Grandma would be busy making Christmas cakes, cookies and plum
                  puddings. On Christmas Eve, we
                  would each take one of Dad's socks (because his were the
                  largest), pin our name on it, and then place it at the end of
                  our bed to be filled by Santa when he visited our
                  home.   In the morning we
                  would always find our sock filled to the brim with an apple,
                  an orange, a bundle of nuts, some candy and a small toy. 
                  We would lie quietly in bed munching on the treats while we
                  waited to be called down to the living room so that we could
                  open our presents.   This usually happened around
                  5:00 am.  Once the gifts had
                  been opened, inspected and played with for a few minutes, it
                  would be time for breakfast, and we would all gather around
                  the table for our morning meal.   Speaking of
                  breakfasts, I will always remember Dad whenever I eat a boiled
                  egg.....Just as I would place the spoon in my mouth, he would
                  look at me and say "Gulp....Do you know where that egg
                  came from?"...and then he would laugh while I tried to
                  swallow down the mouthful of egg. |  
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                | At
                  dinner time there was always a super large turkey on the table
                  with all of the dressings, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes,
                  peas, and gravy.  What a feast it was, followed by
                  Christmas pudding and Cake. |  
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                | It
                  was around 1958 when we got our first television.  Before
                  that time, we would sit around the big Philco radio that sat
                  in the living room listening to radio shows such as the Lux
                  Theatre, Boston Blackie, The Shadow, John and Judy and Ma
                  Perkins. On weekends, us kids
                  would sit watching the test pattern from sign-on,  until
                  broadcasting began at around noon hour.  The first
                  program we watched on the new television was Wild Bill Hickock. 
                  Dad set the television up in the kitchen and placed rows of
                  chairs so that we could watch the program together.  When the television
                  was relocated to the living room, we would all sit around each
                  evening watching the programs until sign-off at
                  midnight.  My cousin Billy used to join us almost every
                  evening.  He would sit beside me and we would get so
                  wrapped discussing the program at times that we would be told
                  to either be quiet, or leave the room . Reception was not
                  the greatest at the beginning, so Dad would play
                  repairman.  One time he had the back off of the
                  television and he was probing around with a screwdriver in the
                  back of the set.  All of a sudden there was a loud 'pop',
                  and Dad jumped about six inches into the air.  He got a
                  quite shock from the screwdriver touching the wiring in the
                  back of the set, and from that time on, he was quite content
                  to just move the rabbit-ears around the room for improved
                  reception. |  
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                | Dad
                  had a great little workshop down at the bottom of the
                  yard.   It was always an enjoyment to be able to
                  visit and work with him. He had all kinds of tools and he was
                  always making things. Dad taught me how to use and to care for
                  the tools.  His one rule was "if you use it, put it
                  back where you found it". Every evening after
                  dinner, Dad would have a snooze for an hour or so.  
                  When he would awake,  he'd would have a coffee with Mom
                  and then he would go down to his workshop for a couple of
                  hours. |  
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                | While
                  Dad was puttering around his workshop, Mom would be busy
                  cleaning and preparing our clothes for the next day.  In
                  later years, Mom would draw small pictures on the back of
                  business cards.  Each one of her tiny drawings is
                  different,  and today there are perhaps 4,500 - 5,000 in
                  her collection. Mom was
                  also an avid Post Card collector and over the years has
                  collected an estimated 10,000 cards from various sources. |  
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                | After
                  graduating from Algonquin Composite Secondary School in 1960,
                  I secured a job with Imperial Life Assurance Company of Canada
                  in Toronto Ontario with the help or our next door neighbour,
                  Lorraine Wyatt. I made arrangments to board with some of Mom's
                  former friends  who lived in Toronto  on Foxley
                  Avenue ( Lil, Dorothy and Bruce Dunsford), and  Dad drove
                  me to Toronto on the Civic Holiday weekend. While with the
                  Imperial Life Assurance Company, I complete their Life Office
                  Management and Sales Underwriting study courses and then
                  enrolled at the University of Toronto where I studied
                  Economics and Human Resources Management . Imperial Life was a
                  great place to work.   They had a very beautiful
                  dining room for employees, complete with white linen table
                  cloths, napkins and silverware.  Each week, they sold
                  employees lunch tickets - 5 for $1.00, and served full course
                  meals.  Helga, the waitress who was assigned to my table
                  used to always save me an extra meal so that I could take it
                  home after work for dinner.  I had a crush on one
                  of the elevator operators, and after a couple of weeks, 
                  we started dating.  I used to arrive at work at least
                  half-an hour early each day, just to ride up and down the
                  elevator with Joan.  Joan had a beautiful personality and
                  we got along great together.  In fact, at one time we
                  were talking and thinking about getting married.  Joan's
                  parents were very nice people as well, and lived at 120 Alton
                  Avenue in the east end of Toronto.  Joan's mother used to
                  do oil paintings as a hobby,  and her father Frank worked
                  for the Double Day Book Company. He used give me a new book
                  everytime I dropped by to visit them.  I didn't have to
                  join the book club, and always had lots to read. |  
                | To
                  be continued at some later date.... |    |