One reason why so many people have such
a hard time getting used to life in Hawaii is because life here is
NOT like it is in the rest of the United States. Hawaii is not
America. Hawaii is part of the United States of America, but it is
not part of the continents of the Americas and life and culture here
are vastly different from anywhere else in the country. These
lifestyle differences are not apparent to vacationers who pay to
experience mainland-style living. Only after moving and living here
will you see the extreme differences between Hawaii and the rest of
the United States. Diverse Racial Groups
Caucasians are not the majority here as they would be
on the mainland. The major cultures here are Hawaiian, Polynesian,
Japanese, and Portuguese along with some other Asian and Malaysian
cultures. Many buildings are Asian inspired and the Hawaiian and
Polynesian cultures are still very much alive here. Much of the food
is also Asian or Polynesian. American food is not common here unless
you eat in a hotel or restaurant. In Hawaii, there are two main
racial groups. Those are "haoles" (whites) and "locals"
(brown-skinned). The locals vastly outnumber the haoles and while
many people are very kind and loving, many other people are also
extremely racist against whites. This is something very different
and new and hard to cope with for those who are white and from an
area where they were not the racial minority. Of course, you will
find that the spirit of aloha is alive and well here and that many
locals are far from being unkind.
The Spirit of Aloha
I have been all over the country and nowhere in the
United States have I witness the kindness and openness of people as
I have here in Hawaii. Unlike the mainland, we do not walk past
people on the street and stare straight ahead, pretending they do
not exist. Everyone receives a smile and a friendly "hello." When
you meet someone here, it is customary to hug them and, if they are
of the opposite sex, to kiss them, rather than just give the usual
handshake. Locals will often ask you to call them by family names
such as "auntie," "uncle," and "tutu" (grandmother). Most here are
very poor and we all have so little. It gives everyone a sense of
being a family and we all do what we can to help each other out.
Local Food
One of the things that amused me most when I was
working retail in a tourist-oriented store was that so many tourists
would come up to me and ask me where they could try some local food.
Aside from the fact that you would be hard-pressed to find a place
that did NOT sell local food, I would tell them that if they had
never tried local food before, then it was not in their best
interest to try it now. They would only end up ill and ruining their
vacation. There are many local foods that Americans are perfectly
safe eating, but most consist of quite a lot of mayonnaise or of
heavily fried foods.
Poke (poh-kay) is one local dish that is extremely
delicious, though it may be difficult to get a mainlander to eat it.
Poke consists
of raw seafood, usually either fish or octopus, which is mixed with
shoyu (soy sauce), sea salt, and fresh seasonings and seaweed. Those
who appreciate sushi are most likely to try this dish and I HIGHLY
recommend it, especially if it is made of ahi (yellowfin tuna).
Musubis (moo-soo-bee) are fairly safe. Some are
very delicious. The most popular is the $.99
Spam musubi.
A musubi consists of a brick of white rice with a slice of spam on
top wrapped around with a piece of seaweed. Sometimes a slab of
scrambled eggs is included under the Spam. Sometimes a slice of
fried chicken is used instead of Spam. A seasoning called furikake
is often used on top of the rice and it has a fishy smell and taste.
Bentos, or
plate lunches as they are sometimes called are the most popular
and would not be palatable for many Americans. They consist of "two
scoop rice" along with about as many different kinds of deep fried (katsu)
meat as you can find and sometimes scrambled eggs. No vegetables are
ever included except the occasional potato salad and a pickled
ginger slice (the hot-pink and white swirly thing). You can also get
shredded cabbage, macaroni salad, and long rice which looks like
brown noodles or clear gummy worms.
Sushi is extremely popular here and can be
obtained nearly anywhere. Sashimi is plain raw fish.
Mana Pua are bread rolls that are
filled with either sweet potato or some kind of meat, usually pork.
I don't like them, but many locals do. You can get them at 7-11 for
about $.75.
Asian dishes are the most popular type of local
foods. There is the ever-popular Chinese food which everyone knows
and loves. Thai food is also popular here. Thai is very delicious
and is much like Chinese, but not as oily and usually more spicy,
but you can ask for non-spicy versions. Japanese food is extremely
popular and you can purchase
Japanese-style bentos
nearly anywhere. Most treats and desserts are also Asian or
Portuguese.
Mochi (moh-chee) is one of the most popular - a delicious
rice-based cake which is really not like cake at all and more like
soft cookie dough.
Nudity
Nudity is pretty much frowned upon in the United States
no matter the situation. Things are a bit different here, though.
Young children frequently run around at home, in
the yard, and at the beach with no clothes on. It's also common to
see babies carried around in public places with nothing on but a
diaper, sometimes, but rarely, with nothing on at all. Men often go
shirtless, even into stores and public places except restaurants. We
also have nude beaches. These are not private beaches, just secluded
beaches where everyone chooses to go nude. It's not embarrassing to
be there at all and they are very much family places. Whole
families, babies, kids, teenagers, and parents, will all go nude to
the beach together. Breastfeeding is more popular here than in other
areas of the country an women feed openly in public without covering
themselves. It is illegal to ask a woman breastfeeding in Hawaii to
cover herself or to move to another area and is punishable by law.
Poverty
Most people in Hawaii live below the national poverty
line. Strangely, these people do not feel as though they live in
poverty. The spirit of aloha is alive and well here and with a
close-knit community and attention to family, money seems to be of
no importance at all. Hawaiians know how to have fun and when they
are not working hard, they play hard. While people on the mainland
feel that being poor and living on welfare is something to be
ashamed of, in Hawaii it is simply a way of life and no one thinks
any differently of you if you are rich or poor. Most people here
live on welfare because it is so easily obtained. Hawaii also has
the MedQuest program, a medical insurance program run by the state
which covers 100% of medical expenses to those who live below the
poverty line. David receives free medical from his company because
it is required by law in Hawaii. Amber is self-employed and receives
Quest insurance. Housing here seems to fall into disarray and a home
which no one on the mainland would consider living in is often
thought of as acceptable and even "nice" here.
Tatoos
Tattoos are an extremely important and accepted part of
the culture here. While on the mainland, having a tattoo may be seen
as alternative or rebellious and is even frowned upon, in Hawaii,
tattoos are very popular and meaningful. You will find it extremely
difficult to find anyone here without a tattoo. They are as common
in Hawaii as makeup is on the mainland. Tattoos are so acceptable
here that they will not affect your ability to get or keep a job, no
matter what that job is and even men with facial tattoos find good
jobs working for reputable and even high-end companies.
Most of the tattoos that you will see are
black-and-white, usually family names and portraits. Other popular
themes are fish, fishhooks, maps of Hawaii, and portraits of
Hawaiian royalty. Another popular style are the Maori tattoos.

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