Friendship
And a youth said, "Speak to us of Friendship."
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving. And
he is your board and your fireside. For you come to him with your hunger,
and you seek him for peace. When your friend speaks his mind you fear not
the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay." And when he is
silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart; For without words,
in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and
shared, with joy that is unacclaimed. When you part from your friend, you
grieve not; For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence,
as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain. And let there
be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit. For love
that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but
a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught. And let your best
be for your friend. If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know
its flood also. For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours
to kill? Seek him always with hours to live. For it is his to fill your
need, but not your emptiness. And in the sweetness of friendship let there
be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things
the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

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