Joy and Sorrow
Then a woman said, "Speak to
us of Joy and Sorrow."
And he answered:
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled
with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves
into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that hold
your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven? And is not
the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with
knives? When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find
it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When
you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth
you are weeping for that which has been your delight. Some of you say,
"Joy is greater than sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater."
But I say unto you, they are inseparable. Together they come, and when
one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep
upon your bed. Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow
and your joy.
Only when you are empty are you
at standstill and balanced. When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh
his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.