I am also a practicing Wiccan Witch. For years (approximately ten) I had been visited pretty regularly by a 'being' who wanted to have 'sex' with me. When I say 'sex' I don't mean physical sex. Apparently there is a type of sex that is 'soul sex'. So, I knew exactly what the girl was talking about when I read her story (see sheridan's story). From what I can gather over the entire length of my 'visitations', is that sex is not purely physical, that there is something cosmic about it (don't laugh!)
I was raised a Christian in the South, and at the time of the 'visitations' I had not been completely de-programmed from Christian rhetoric. So I thought this must be a demon, trying to impregnate me with Damien or something! This 'being' would come and lay behind me in bed regularly. He would then breathe heavily in my ear and and squeeze my shoulders. I know this sounds strange, but that was the way he was trying to have sex with me. When he squeezed my shoulders, I would get intense sexual feelings through out my body. I felt like I was being sexually pleasured without the penetration of a penis. Weird.
I would not let this go for more than two or three seconds, when I would start praying and try to fight it off. I was partially paralyzed throughout the entire 'session'. He would leave only to return a few nights later and try to have sex with me again. This went on for years! I would never give in and proceeded to pray, try to scream and try fighting him every time I felt his heavy breathing. I never felt frightened. I just wanted to use some common-sense.
Three years ago I converted to Wicca. I had started to read a lot of books on Astral Travel and had heard about astral sex. I never read the books on astral sex, thinking they were just New Age fluff and flakiness, even though I had had my own weird experiences. My fear about demons had subsided a great deal and I realized that a lot of it was Christian brainwashing. Then one night he came back again.
He lay down behind me in bed and I felt his heavy breathing and him touching me on my shoulders. I was very much aroused. My curiosity finally got the best of me and I just let him "have his way". :-) After a few minutes of intense sexual pleasure from the shoulder squeezing, I was sexually satisfied. It was weird.
I felt as though I had been in an hour long session of passionate love-making and had no disappointments from it. Yet this only lasted about five minutes. After he finished, he talked to me for the first time! He whispered in my ear: "See, there is nothing to be afraid of. I am just like you".
I fell asleep. I woke up in the morning beaming with satisfaction. Miss Afterglow! I actually looked forward to him returning on a regular basis. But he has never returned. After ten years of chasing me, he never came back after I gave in . Typical male! :-) That was about 2 years ago now.
When he said "I am just like you", I understood it to mean that he was a human being also. That he was just astral travelling. I had a feeling that he was very much alive (not a ghost). He had just mastered the art of astral travel. When he spoke to me, an image appeared in my mind. I saw a caucasian male, brown hair and brown eyes. Very kind aura.
If you want to learn a little more about astral sex, please pick up "Journeys Out of the Body" by Robert Monroe. He is a very famous author on the subject of Astral Travel. It is a great book, written in semi-diary form. It is not an entire book about astral sex but, by the time he does mention his 'cosmic rendezvous', it is very enlightening.