Independence
"He who binds himself to a joy Does the winged life destroy; But he who kisses the joy as it flies Lives in eternity's sunrise" - Blake, William (1757-1827)
"The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, and in a sense tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent." - Fromm, Erich