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             Confucius' world was made of elegant court ceremonies, 
            with dance and music. He believed that if a set of rules of courtesy 
            (called "ritual" LI) were respected in society, relationships would become 
            harmonious. But it also involved an inner awareness of the needs 
            of others ("humanity" REN). Confucius stated 
            the golden rule 400 years before the Bible: "What you do not 
            wish for yourself, do not impose on others." (Analects 12:2). 
              And he had a sense of humor too:   "The Governor of 
            She asked about Confucius. Zilu did not reply. The Master said: 
            'Why did you not say: He is the sort of man who, in his enthusiasm, 
            forgets to eat, in his joy forgets to worry, and who ignores the 
            approach of old age?" (7:19).  |