General
Info
Let
me be completely honest. Japanese gay culture is not easy
to become a part of. It took me many years before a found
a 'place' there. Like many aspects of Japanese culture, if you're
not Japanese, you will always be an outsider. That being
said, however, there is lots to enjoy in Japan, and this page is
your mini-guide to making the most of your stay, particularly in
the Kansai area.
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Click
on this link for a candid
article about one visitor's
impressions of gay life in Japan.
Very informative and helpful. |
'Types'
are quite important to Japanese gay men. If you visit a gay bar,
you will likely be asked what your 'type' is. Type is sen in
Japanese, so a 'chubby-chaser' would be known as debu-sen.
These are the main 'types':
Lon-ge |
Long
hair |
Sa-fa- |
Surfer
- tanned, long-haired
Japanese 'hunks' |
Tanpatsu |
Short
hair |
Debu |
Chubby |
Chibi
(Mame) |
'Small'
size |
Jyani-zu |
"Johnny's" -
this refers to the cute boys in the various Japanese boy
bands, such as Arashi or V6, produced by "Johnny's
Jimusho" |
Be-ya |
Bear |
Kawaii |
Cute |
Gatchiri
|
Muscleman/buffed
up |
Just
for the record, my type is kawaii tanpatsu no
chibi--cute little guys with short hair. |
Gaijin
If you are a Westerner (and particularly if you
are Caucasian) you should be aware that you are a 'gaikokujin' or
'gaijin'--a foreigner. Of course, everyone who is not Japanese is
a 'gaijin', but the ones of us who stand out are most readily placed
in this category. Some Japanese boys are self-proclaimed gaisen,
which is the Japanese equivalent of 'potato queen'--Asian boys who
like Westerners. On the other hand, some Japanese have absolutely
no interest in foreigners, so you may be snubbed for that very reason.
One possible explanation for this love/hate relationship may stem
from the fact that foreigners are rumoured to be very well-endowed.
Hmmm. Let it be said here that while many Japanese boys proclaim
to be 'small', this is certainly NOT always the case (just so you
know).
You
should not let this potential bias deter you. There are lots of
kind Japanese men who, even if they
are not gaisen, are pleased to chat with a foreigner.
Take a chance, take your time, and
have fun! |