In Loving Memory of
Amy Lynn Thatcher
April 26, 1975 - September 15, 1989

Amy had a hard start in life. Born premature April 26, 1975, to proud parents Mary and Terry. She had to struggle, it was touch and go, and the doctors were not sure she was going to make it. But, being the fighter she was, she finally made it home. It was hard for her to gain weight, no matter how hard Mary tried, Amy seemed to always have one health problem or another. As time went by, Amy grew healthier, and soon grew into a blond haired, brown eyed, beautiful teenager.
Amy was as sweet a child as anyone could hope for, at 14 years of age she still called her mother "Mommy". (She had made me very happy one day, when she told me I was her "favorite aunt" which meant something to me, because she has several of us) And my daughters were very close to her. She did all she could to help around the house. She was learning how to cook and sew, and all the things a young girl needed to know. She babysat her younger brothers Damon and Allen ( at the time 10 and 8, a handful for anyone) after school, so that her mother could work. And all Amy asked for in return, was the money she needed for basketball. She was growing tall, and was showing promise of being a star player. She kept her grades up so that there would be no chance of getting cut from the team! Amy had talked of joining the Air Force when she got older, with the intension of getting a degree in Areal Photography.
She also had hopes of modeling.
Being tall was a bit of a problem, as she was one of the tallest in her age group. Some of the other students that rode her bus, teased her unmercifully about it. She had told her mother about the problem. And after talking to the school, but not getting anywhere with it, they decided she would be allowed to walk to school. But with an understanding that she was never to walk alone . So she started walking to school with some of her friends that lived close by. This went along fine for months.
On Sept.15, 1989, Amy and her friends were on their way to school, it was only a few blocks from home. Her friends were having problems with a dog, so they told her to go ahead to school without them. They were not far from the school at this point. And that they would be there as soon as they found someone to help them with the dog.
Amy never made it there.
Walking to school she had to pass a parol office.
Having walked by it daily, to and from school, she must have thought nothing of it. But evidentally she should have. A man, by the name of Kenneth Reed Smith, was on parol after having spent a short time in prison for armed robbery and other assorted crimes. He had been on his way to report to his parol officer, but he changed his plan. Seeing Amy by herself, (though her friends were close enough to see it happen) he pulled his car up to the curb, and grabbed Amy and pulled her into his car. The last Amy's friends ever saw of her, was with a scared look on her face as she was trying franticly to get away from her captor, as he drove past, with her screaming!!
Her friends left the dog where it was and ran to the school to report what they had seen. For some unknown reason the school "liaison" waited 30minutes before calling Mary to tell her that Amy hadn't made it to school. (Why they waited the 30 minutes we'll never know.) And what the boys (her friends) had told them. But they never reported her missing to the authorities. Possibly not wanting the school to take "responsibility" for her, because she had not made it to the school grounds. (as far as the school is concerned, it never did happen because, to this day , it is not in the school records. Though the school did plant a Red-leaf Maple tree, in honor of her memory, 3 years later.) Mary then called the police to report it to them. The police arrived shortly there after to investigate. They had found several people that had seen, Amy get kidnapped but, nobody wanted to get "involved", except for one older woman who had also called the police, she was able to give a description that matched what the two young boys had given, and a license plate number. At this point in time anything was helpful.
There was a massive hunt, and the television stations had shown up to do their pieces on it. That was when the rest of the family found out about Amy missing. My daughter was watching T.V. and said, "Look, that looks like Amy" (they were showing a picture of her on the news) Of course I thought 'she had to be mistaken', I went to take go look, and to our horror, found out my daughter was correct. My sister (Mary) was understandably upset, and didn't want to worry us needlessly, she was still in hopes that they would find her soon, unharmed. So hadn't called to tell us about it yet. We all prayed we would find her safe. The search for Amy was not going too well, there had been several reports there after, of people seeing her in the car with her kidnaper going down roads. The search ended the following day when, Kenneth Reed Smith's sister told police he was the one that had done it, and where he was hiding out.
This next part is very hard to deal with for me, it breaks my heart to think of what sweet, innocent Amy's last hour of her life must have been like. It had to have seemed like an eternity to her.
They soon had him in custody, his face was scratched badly from when Amy, had tried to fight him off. Amy had been fighting for her life. But she was not strong enough to fight off this evil man!! He confessed to all of it. He had taken her to a secluded area just a couple miles from where he had kidnapped her. Beat her, raped her then as a finality he strangled her to death with her own shoelaces.
We miss Amy badly, but I'm not sure I would have wanted her to have lived through that. She may have been strong enough to handle it. Amy was a fighter, but I could not imagine her having to have lived with that memory for the rest of her life. Even though there are help groups, you can never forget something like that. We know Amy is in Heaven, with her Grandfather who loved her dearly. In one way I was glad that he had passed before she had, I'm not sure he would have survived losing any of his children or grandchildren. I know the Angel Amy is watching over us. If I had one wish for Amy, it would have been that she could have been here to watch her precious little sister,Theresa grow up. Amy had always wanted a little sister. Tessie will never really know what a wonderful big sister she had.
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The funeral for Amy filled her family's hearts. The services for her were held in a very large church, the one Amy attended regularly. And it was filled to over flowing, with people wanting to pay their last respects. The instrumental version, of Stairway to Heaven, (Amy's favorite song) was playing, and there was a very touching eulogy. I still cry when I hear that song. The procession to the burial site was an impressive, six miles long. We knew Amy was and always will be loved!! She rests, in a small family cemetery, the plots (for her and her family) were donated by a caring stranger, Mary and Terry had not yet thought of needing one. Her headstone has a unicorn on one side and a pegasus on the other, she had started collecting them. when her life was so cruelly cut short. I think she may have still believed fairy tales could come true.
Amy's brothers and her cousins that were very close to her still have nightmares about it. It is sad to say that one of my daughters is still so traumatized by it that she is unable to talk to anyone about it. One afternoon during bible classes at a school she was attending, she got up an ran out. Confused, the preacher went to her to ask her what was wrong. That had been the first and only time she was ever able to discuss what had happened. At times, out of the blue, she will say she still misses Amy, but nothing more .......
As for the man that took her life, he received life, as it turns out, that amounts to approximately 15 years but thats not really all that much, he will be eligible for parol again in a couple of years. During the trial, we found out he had raped several other young girls, the youngest of which was a 13 year old he raped in the basement of his father's church, branishing a butcher knife. To our knowledge, there was only one he had raped that was not a little girl, she was 36, and that was a few days before he ended Amy's life. I can only hope they decide not to allow him on the streets ever again.

I am not yet finished with 'About Amy'. There have been many things created in honor of her memory. I will be adding more information soon.

Please
for the sake of all the other "Amys" out there, if you see a child in danger, or even think they may be, get "involved" their life may depend on it!!

Pass this page along to your friends so that Amy will not be forgotten.

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