Have you ever wondered who made up manners and why? I have a feeling that
they were created by the wealthy nobles so that they could irradicate nature. Why shouldn't we put our
elbows on the table and who said that we should we be embarassed when we belch.
These things are natural and people hate things that are natural.
Society says that women need to be skinny; Nature says that they need to gain
weight. Which one is right? No matter how much women fight the battle of the
buldge, nature usually wins because they need to store energy in the event that
something should happen during pregnancy.
The problem is the desire to be refined. The word refined implies that something
has been changed from its natural form to another form. The nobles tried to use their
money to make all that is natural disappear. Attitudes are different now, so why do
people still try to make these things that are natural go away? It probably has to do
with the fact that many people do things because that is always how they have done
them and how they will always do them. They do not think about why they do such
ridiculous things, but they don't want to change.
This reminds me of a story:
A little girl asked her mother why she puts a glass of water in the oven every time
she bakes a cake. This confused the mother because she did not know; it was merely
what her mother used to do, so she asked her mother about it. Her mother said, "I don't
know that is what my mother always did. Why don't you go ask your grandmother?" The
woman went to her grandmother and asked her, "Why do we put a glass of water in the
oven every time we bake a cake?" The grandmother responded, "I don't know why you
do it. I did it because the rake was uneven and it kept the cake from rising unevenly."
This story illustrates how people do things because that is how their mother used to
do things. Manners are really uessential and draw us away from nature.
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