What's M.E. like
Having M.E. can be compared to a Ferrari Engine in a
Volkswagon Beetle on rims with no tires - lots of desire to move
(and you can with much effort) but it takes a great toll on the car.
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The Manual contains information on both M.E. and FM including 55 symptoms, 48 Drugs, 49 therapies, 47 disability benefits, 67 Books, 68 other organizations and societies, 186 supportive doctors, C.P.P., Long Term Disability, insurance, legal help, dealing with doctors, how to cope with the illness, as well as the Index to the "M.E. & FM Library Materials". Take a quick look through the Table of Contents below for more details. An option to allow searching the entire web site has now been added. The text of the Manual is shown, however most of the formatting was lost when the manual was converted for this Web page. The font can be changed chosing a diferent font from the fixed and proportional selections in the options menu.
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Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, CFS, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, ME, Fibromyalgia Syndrome, FMS, Fibrositis, CFIDS, GWS, Gulf War Syndrome, health, disease, allergies, disability benefits, organizations, doctors, insurance, long term disabilities, CPP, MCS, Silicone breast implants, Post-Polio, Neuromyasthenia, Lyme, Mononucleosis, IBS, CDC, Post-viral fatigue syndrome, PVFS, Epstein-Barr, EBV, HHV, Herpes, Immune.
1)** The purpose of this manual is to give, in point form, a summary
of
the important facts and opinions in regard to:
a)** an illness known as MYALGIC ENCEPHALOMYELITIS
(M.E.).
This illness is characterized as follows:
MYALGIC - muscle pain
ENCEPHALO - brain
MYEL - spinal cord
ITIS - inflammation
M.E. has many symptoms: swollen lymph glands, low
grade fever,
headaches, sore throat, fatigue, muscle pain, depression, sleep
disturbances,
cognitive problems (poor concentration, memory lapses), mood
swings,
irritability and digestive problems.
b)** a separate condition known as FIBROMYALGIA (FM), an
arthritic
type condition:
FIBRO - fibrous tissue
MY - muscle
ALGIA - pain
FM has many similar symptoms to M.E. - in fact many M.E.
patients
have a diagnosis of Fibromyalgia as well as M.E. The
biggest difference
between M.E. and FM is that FM does not have as much
cognitive
problems or exercise intolerance (see Chapter 4 for a further
comparison).
Some symptoms of FM are: wide spread muscle pain, intestinal
problems,
fatigue, non-restorative sleep, tender points at specific sites of
the body,
depression and headaches.
2)** There are many names used for the illness of M.E. :
a)** Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS)
b)** Chronic Fatigue (CF) - This a symptom, not an illness
c)** Post-Viral Fatigue Syndrome #941005-36.
d)** Post Viral Syndrome
e)** Chronic Epstein Barr Virus
f)** Epstein Barr Virus - the virus does not create M.E., nor is
it M.E.
g)** Mononucleosis #90005-2 - this is not M.E.
h)** Chronic Mononucleosis - this is not M.E.
i)** Fibromyalgia - this is a separate condition
j)** Yuppie Flu
k)** Chronic Fatigue Immune Dysfunction Syndrome
l)** Chronic Fatigue Immune Deficiency Syndrome
m)** Post-Polio Syndrome - #941005-35 - this is not M.E.
n)** Post-Polio Virus - this is not M.E.
o)** Poliomyelitis ??
p)** Neuromyasthenia ??
q)** Epidemic Neuromyasthenia
r)** Royal Free Disease
s)** Gilliam Ramsay's Syndrome #940806- 64.
t)** Icelandic Disease
u)** Akureyri Disease
3)** Why am I writing this manual? When I first became ill, I knew
that
something was wrong with me. I went for various tests (blood tests, scans,
etc.) to determine why I was so sick, yet no one could tell me what was
wrong.
It was by accident that I discovered an illness called "Chronic Fatigue
Syndrome"; once I started investigating this illness, I began to realize that this
might be the cause of my symptoms. I then had to educate my doctors on this
illness, which became a rather tedious job. Slowly on, I became aware of other
people who also had C.F.S. and I found that we all had a common problem -
not enough information. I discovered there was information out there, but you
had to know who to ask in order to get it. I then made it my ambition to gather
as much of this information as I could, and compile it into a "manual", so that
those who had this illness (or who thought they might have it, or knew someone
who did) could have all this information in one location. This became a
much
bigger project than I had anticipated. However, I feel very strongly about this
manual, and persevered in order to bring you this issue. I believe people
should not have to learn through trial and error, or have to suffer for several
years before they receive some of the valuable information that is available
through support group leaders and others with M.E. and FM. I believe
that
as much of this information as possible should be made available to people in
point form, that directs them to more detailed information in one location,
specifically Chapter 2 on the "M.E. & FM Library Materials". I have seen
one person die, as well as hundreds of others suffer needlessly due to a lack
of knowledge. I simply want to help people deal with these life-altering
illnesses.
4)** Who will benefit from the manual? Those who have not been
diagnosed,
those who have just been, family and friends, singles or married, poor or well-
to-do, and support group leaders, will all benefit from this manual. I have tried
to supply information relative to each of these categories.
5)** This manual is pertinent for any country. The material is not region
specific and applies to whichever country you live in. The manual can be
broken down as to its usefulness as follows:
In any given country 80% useful;
In the
U.S. 85%
In
Canada 90%
In British Columbia 100%
Some of the information, though region specific, can be used in your country.
For example, in B.C., there is a gas tax rebate for the handicapped, car
insurance discounts, as well as income tax rebates. Your country probably
has these same benefits available, you simply need to know about them.
This Manual is intended to be used as a starting point for you to investigate
what your country or province has to offer - ideas are what this manual is for.
a)** Handling your government disability or Long-term
disability claims
from your insurance company will be similar to what it is in
Canada.
b)** Wherever you live, I am interested in receiving your
comments,
suggestions, and ideas either by letter, phone call, or through the
Internet
E-Mail. We need to join forces and help one another.
c)** Country-specific addendum. I would like to
organize specific
information by regions; this would avoid duplication of
materials. By
using this method of gathering information, the M.E. or FM
contact
person in any given region could have one main package as a
resource.
6)** Why are M.E. & FM referred to both separately and jointly? I
originally started writing about "M.E. only". I then found how large a
component FM was, and how similar some of the symptoms were to M.E.,
so I dedicated a fair amount of space to it. The following chart compares the
similarities of M.E. issues with FM and other non-related illnesses.
ISSUES Similarities with M.E.
FM
OTHERS
Legal 95
% 20 %
Treatment 85
% 20 %
Symptoms 70
% 10 %
Most of the information in this manual - 70% - refers to both M.E. &
FM
and applies to either. FM specific information covers 10% and M.E. specific
covers 20%. I have been diagnosed with both M.E. & FM so I know what
both are like.
7)** M.E. is the dominant of the two illnesses. When someone is
diagnosed
with M.E. as well as FM, it appears the M.E. is the dominant of the
two.
Therapists must be aware of this, and initiate treatments accordingly.
8)** Symptoms vary from day to day. There is more to these illnesses than
what you can or cannot do (physically or mentally) at any given point in time.
40% of the illness is determined by how you are NOW, while 60% is
determined by how you are AFTER you have performed any mental or
physical activity.
9)** Manual Standards
a)** "If the world was perfect, I'd have a million dollars, a
photographic
memory, three medical degrees, a PHD, three secretaries, and a
perfect
manual". However, the world isn't perfect, I do the best
I can with
what I have. I ask as much constructive help from
everyone that reads
this, or that has dealings with M.E. or FM.
b)** "Say nothing unless it's perfect." Some people have
the philosophy
that you should not say anything unless it's perfect. I
don't follow that
policy - I do the best I can to get the information down in
writing now, and
then continue to perfect it as I do further research.
c)** Rules and ideas change over time. I have done my
utmost to ensure
the information here is as accurate as possible. However
I must caution
you, always confirm with your doctor what treatment you intend
to follow,
and don't rush into anything without careful analysis.
Consult your lawyer,
family, or friends to help you reach an informed decision on
matters.
d)** Expert opinions conflict. Many experts disagree on
M.E. & FM
symptoms and therapies. In this manual, I have
tried to record the
general consensus as well as some of the controversial
discussions, which
is why in some areas, the information will
conflict.
e)** I am not politically correct, and I make little attempt to be
so in this
manual. Sick people need action. The AIDS
Coalition did not worry
about political correctness, and look how fast they got the world
to take
notice. It is time for every M.E. & FM person to
stand up and shout that
they need help NOW.
f)** All of the over 5,200 pages of information and video tapes
from the
"M.E. & FM Library Materials" have been reviewed by
myself and
summarized in this "M.E. & FM Manual".
g)** 1-800 phone numbers listed in the manual will be for
Canada and the
U.S., unless specifically noted.
h)** All prices listed are in Canadian funds, unless otherwise
stated.
10)** Issue #, Updates, * and ** .
a)** The manual is now a yearly newsletter. Each year
the same
information will be published with changes and additions to the
previous
years' edition. This way you do not have to keep any of
the old issues
because you still get all this information in the new one (eg Issue
#4 has
108 pages of new information added to Issue #3).
b)** On the Title Page, the dates refer to when each issue was
released, and
the estimated date of the next issue. The (*) asterisks
below the dates are
used throughout the manual to designate how "new" the
information in that
paragraph is.
c)** Updates or changes to the manual are denoted by asterisks
after the
paragraph number:
(1) ** [this information was
updated for this issue];
(2) * [the
information was updated for the previous issue];
(3)
[no asterisk means this information has not been updated for at
least 2 issues].
Using the asterisks allows a member of the "Manual Newsletter"
group to
focus on what is new information since the last issue that was
read.
11)** How to find what you're looking for. There are three types of
references in this manual.
a)** The first, and most common reference, will be for
information found
in specific documents, magazine articles, newsletters or video
tapes. All
materials that I have used as reference material for the manual
are listed
in the "M.E. & FM Library Materials" Index (9 pages),
located at the back of
this manual. There are over 360 references, to over
5,200 pages of information
housed in fourteen libraries throughout British Columbia.
These materials
will be further discussed in Chapter 2. The reference
number is where this
piece of information came from or where you can go to for more
information.
(1)** Each article is given a
number with a page reference. An
example of a reference
number is #950802-24, meaning that the article
is found in the "M.E.
& FM Library Materials" under document
#950802, page 24.
The article would have been printed in 1995 (95);
August (08) and (02) would
be the sequence it was referenced.
(2)** Video tapes are listed
as reference numbers, eg (950213 Video2
@ 3:20) refers to Video
Tape #2, starting at 3 hours, 20 minutes.
b)** Another type of reference will be to statements made
without a
specific location named. These are items that I have read
in publications,
but I do not have copies of the source, or information that I have
learned
in relation to running support groups and dealing with M.E. and
FM
people since 1991.
c)** The third type of reference is my own personal
opinion. These
references will be shown as {PO} {personal opinion}.
Personal opinions
are placed within {} brackets.
d)** I have also added an index to the back of this
manual. Each item listed
is bolded, underlined and italicized on the page to make it easier
to find.
12)** Not everyone becomes totally disabled with M.E. or FM.
I would hope everyone does the best they can with the abilities
they have
remaining. Occasionally I write about being disabled -
this refers to people
who can no longer work full or part-time, or those who are able
to work but
have significant problems both at work and home.
13)** Being realistic. You must be realistic about this illness or condition - for
most people it takes many years to even partially recover. It is not something
that you heal from quickly. Many of the issues are not black and white,
but
grey; for example, a therapy may work extremely well for one person, but do
nothing for someone else. Parts of this manual should be read every 4-6
months, so that you can remember, understand and be prepared as the illness
and your circumstances change. Everyone would like this illness to be over
quickly, however if you do have it you must be realistic and plan for the
future. Take advantage of the disability benefits that you are entitled to, while
trying to get relief for your symptoms and help with your family life.
14)** Manual Access. There are several ways to get access to this manual. a)** This manual will now be published as a bi-anual newsletter. It is a non- profit newsletter, prepared by my family and friends. Send your name and address with $14 U.S. or $19 Canadian membership donation or what you can aford and a copy of the manual will be sent to you. Notification will also be given by mail when the next issue is completed. Make the cheque payable to Doug Shore - M.E. & FM Manual and send it to the following address. I can accept cheques, if they are drawn on a US or Canadian bank.
b)** The current issue of this manual is included in the "M.E. & FM Library Materials"; c)** I will send a copy of this manual to all M.E. support group leaders in B.C. as well as The FM Society of B.C.; d)** It will be advertised in the back of each M.E.B.C. newsletter; e)** Between issues of the "M.E. & FM Manual" - the quarterly newsletter of M.E.B.C. will contain some of the new information to be used in the next issue. f)** On the Internet (the Table of Contents, Introduction and Index of each new issue will be posted). A list of every M.E., FM related jumppoints, newsgroups and every E-Mail address I could find for every organization in the world will be posted. Web www.oocities.org/capitolhill/1544 E-Mail deshore@shaw.ca g)** If financial hardship exists, I will send a copy of the Manual to you for what you can afford. Return to Menu
15)** Guarantee: I feel strongly that the M.E. & FM Manual will be a help to people with M.E. or FM, in any country. I stand behind that. If you feel you want your money refunded, simply mail the unmarked Manual to me and I will return any monies.Return to Menu
This site is not intended to replace the ME-Net by Marc-Alexander Fluks or the CFS/M.E. page by Roger Burns which is the best informational web site I have found for both M.E. and FM. What I will try to do is present sites not listed, any pertient newsgroups, as well as every E-Mail address for every society or association in the world. Since most do not have a site in their own Society's name but use personal addresses, there is no other way of searching for them. Please E-Mail me with any new web sites or E-Mail addresses that you do not find on this list.
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