The Grain Ritual:

George picks up empty large bowl.  Viv takes bowl of rice, and pours it into the larger bowl.
Vivian:
George, I offer you this Italian arborio rice as a symbol of my heritage and of its sustenance for life. I give this to you as a representation of our love sustaining us.
George offers Viv the larger bowl, picks up small bowl of oats, pouring them into large bowl containing the rice.
George:
Viv, these oats symbolize my heritage and the sustenance of life.  I offer this as a representation of our love sustaining us.  As the grains are combined, they each retain their uniqueness.  We are uniting our love, but retaining our uniqueness as individuals.

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