Portrait of a Friend

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems , doubts, or fears.

But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers.

I can't change your past with all it's heartache and pain,

nor the future with it's untold stories.

But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling.

I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happinesses are not mine; yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge; I can

only support you , encourage you, and help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship,

from your values, from me. I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,

but I can give you the room to change, room to grow,

room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,

but I can cry

with you and help you pick up the pieces and put

them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are.

I can only love you and be your friend.

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