Personality (Guys)
[7-24-04] - Why do guys say nice things and then ignore you? - A girl asked me this question earlier this week. It's real simple to answer. But let me break it down into 2 parts. Why do guys say nice things? If you really want to know, 90% of guys say nice things because they want you to like them so they can screw your brains out. Sorry, but it's true. Most guys are assholes who don't care about anyone but themselves and every thing they say and do to a girl is focused on pleasing their penis. You wanted honesty...I'm giving it to you. Guys will say anything to get into a girl's pants. And most girls fall for it. But...there are also some guys (myself included) who will say nice things because they ACTUALLY mean it. They are being honest, sincere, sweet, and kind. They have no alterior motive...they simply want you to know that they think highly of you and want you to be happy about it. But it's these guys...the ones who pour out their heart and soul...that are rejected. The girls have heard the nice things from the assholes so they are convinced it's the same thing. It's rather amusing. The few guys who are being nice for all of the right reasons are being hated and the guys who don't mean a thing they say are the ones getting all of the action...very sad. I'm actually weeping as I write this...ok, I'm not. Now...for part 2...Why do they then ignore you after they have said all of these nice things? Truthfully, like I said above, most guys didn't mean anything they said anyways. They never liked you. They never cared about you or thought you were beautiful. You were just another statistic...another girl...nothing important. They are done with you and are on their way to do the same thing to another brainless, naive, and soon-to-be-used young lady. So to answer the question, they ignore you because they don't want anything to do with you anymore. Of course, you have some out of the "nice guy" group (remember, I'm in this group) who will ignore you as well. Not for the same reasons though. No, these guys actually did mean all that they said. They DID like you and DID think you were beautiful. But alas, you didn't believe them. And your constant blowing them off when they open up to you leaves them hurt so they just don't bother anymore. So girls, that is why guys compliment you and then are gone.
[7-24-04] - Good Guys Go Badddddd - Ladies beware! The number of players and dickwads is always increasing. The chance of you running into some dude who is just looking for some booty is very good. Yeah, they may look hot or clean-cut or just downright sweet...but how can you really tell? You can't. Of course, this goes both ways...women are equally as deceiving at times...but I'm focusing on the guys right now. There are guys who have always and will always be looking for just a piece of ass no matter what. They will do and say whatever it takes just to "hit that". They don't really have any emotional feelings for these girls. But then there are good guys who just have had enough and decide to try out being "bad". They see all of the girls they want dissing them and going off with some druggie, pothead, badboy, or just plain old assclown. They get tired of trying and decide maybe they will get some action if they just become a player themself. Most girls will tell them "don't change" or "you are great and I like you how you are!". And yet these guys are sitting at home alone while these girls who tell them not to change are riding the rod of some scumbag. This is reality. Ladies, don't whine and complain about guys using you or treating you like crap because you are the ones choosing those dipshits. And don't use the lie about wanting a nice guy...we all know it's not true. Fact is, you get what you deserve if you diss someone who cares about you for some crapstain.
Extras (Girls)
[3-6-03] - Smoking Chicks - OK, OK...I know many girls don't like to be called chicks. But seriously, many members of the female gender deserve to be called a lot worse. Sluts, airheads, unappreciative bitches...sense some hostility here?? Yeah, maybe. Actually, I love, adore, and care for most of the women in my life. But the one thing I've noticed is that no matter where I go or what I'm doing, every time I see a cute girl, she pulls out a cigarette and starts puffing away. EWWWWWW!!!!! I dunno why it is that most people get into smoking (peer pressure, stress, etc.) but it's a disgusting habit. And when I see a girl smoking, it's a turnoff. Too bad you say? Maybe. Of course, I've seen and know the types of guys they attract and are attracted to and I must say...their loss, not mine. I'm not saying smoking makes you a bad person. Not at all. It has nothing to do with the type of person you are...it's just...yucky! It smells pretty bad and even looks dirty. I also know that once you get addicted, it's really hard to stop. I don't buy the crap about it being a stress reliever...that's a weak excuse. If you need a smoke to take care of your stress, you have other problems to deal with. Some people are just weak and not strong willed I suppose. Most do it just to be "cool" I guess because their friends do it and then they get hooked into it. It's sad. I know I don't want the wonderful females that I love and care about to end up dead from lung cancer...that's all I'm saying...sue me.