T.N.G. SIGNS OF THE TIMES - N.M. December 23, 2003  (#127)

 

Greetings from Russell's Remnant:                                                                                  www.oocities.org/dkone_us

 

Dr. Russell Whitesell pointed out to his classes that the Great Teachers on the planet are very concerned about how adults treat children.  D.K. (Djwhal Khul) made the following statements:

Children (up to 16 years of age) of the world is, without exception, the most urgent confronting humanity today.   POH 32

The problem of the children, greater than all other problems, underlies the necessity for world rebuilding.  The children have prior claim upon all men.   EOH 385

 

BULLIES ON NOTICE:

           

Dr. Phil McGraw and his son Jay produced a television program on 2/27/03 about the problem of bullies in our schools.  The show pointed out that:

150,000 children in America do not go to school each day because of some bully at school.

            The third leading cause of suicide among teenagers is “bullying” – called “Bullycide”.

            We are not just talking about pushing and shoving, but we are talking about emotional terrorism – like viscious threats, gossip, name calling, and making kids feel like outcasts.

            Teen bullies call it fun to bully other kids.  One bully on the show stated, “I pick on weaker kids because I think it is fun.

            Parents of bullies often justify their child bullying others by saying that the bullied child caused their child to bully others.

            Bullies choose those to pick on by deciding which kids they can pick on and then beat them up if they fight back.  They choose the weak ones.  Some bullies bully their own parents.

            Research shows that bullies have high self-esteem.  They pick on the ones with low self-esteem.

 

            Bullies strut around after bullying others.  They are arrogant about it.  They pick on others to make themselves feel better about themselves.  They believe that if others are afraid of them, they will be respected.  The opposite is true.  Bullies are talked about behind their backs.

 

            Bullies have a strong sense of excitement and believe that everything is just suppose to go the way they want it to go.  They believe that the universe revolves around them.  A few bullies will one day grab a hold of someone who it will not be easy to get go of, and they get their come-upence. 

(Editors note: At one school, a bully had picked on other kids for a year or two when one day he pick on a quiet, rather introverted type young boy.  When the bully turned his wrath on the young quiet man, the young man began physically whipping the bully around the gymnasium.  The coach and teachers saw what was happening, they smiled and turned their heads away and ignored the bully getting beat up.)

 

            Those bullied end up with no self confidence or self-esteem – and eventually with no defense, and they give up.

            The authorities at the schools (the teachers, counselors, principals, school-boards) say unless they have physical scares, they cannot do anything.

            Dr. Phil told one girl that if the school didn’t hear her complaints, “I’ll bet you they will hear me.”

            Two-thirds of all school shootings are caused by bullying including the shooting in Columbine, Colorado.

            Most victims of bullying turn their feelings inward and some kill themselves.

           

One mother got no help from the school district or law enforcement after her son was brutally beaten.  Three weeks later, he took a .357 magnum pistol and killed himself.  Where were the teachers and administrators when all this was going on?  They said they could not do anything.  “Without the help of the local school administrators we, the parents, were helpless.  Without the help of the local police departments, we were helpless,” the distraught mother told Phil.

            Nothing happened at all to the bullies that drove this child to his death.

           

This bullying is most prevalent in middle-schools and junior high schools.

 

Dr. Phil McGraw stated, “I hate bullies!”  His son Jay stated anti-bully pledges for students, parents and school teachers.  These sample pledges against bullying can be found at - www.drphil.com.  These pledges ask others to stamp out school bullying, to report to the school faculty, and to not tolerate bullying by having members of the student body surround the bully rather than walking away.  Those who walk away are just as bad as the bully.  Schools are getting these pledges at the website and hope to stamp out bullying in every school in America.  Dr. Phil and Jay want every school to get the pledge and ask the kids to sign it.

 

Dr. Phil stated, “If schools and police won’t stop it, maybe the kids themselves will sign the pledge and stop it.

 

 

 

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(This problem may even be worse outside of schools)

 

            Rita Rubin writing for USA Today stated that bullies and their victims tend to be more violent, especially if the bullying took place away from schools rather than in it.  Bullying away from school may be more severe than bullying at school.

            Likely to carry weapons:         

In school:  Kids who were bullied   ….. 1.5 times more likely

                             Kids who bullied others …..  2.5 times more likely

 

Away from school: Kids who were bullied  ……   4 times more likely

                                                    Kids who bullied others …...   6 times more likely    

 

Those who are bullied carry weapons because they might think they are in danger.  Many adults wrongly dismiss bullying as a normal part of growing up.

 

 

 

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D.K. also made the following statements in the Alice Bailey books:

 

A re-organization of the legal profession motivated by legislation for children will come about primarily in Russia and endorsed by the U.S.A. will occur before 2035 A.D.   EA 238

 

Crime will be stamped out when a child's environment is bettered; with attention to the glands, teeth, eyes, ears, right posture and correct feeding; a more proper apportionment to time; attention to esoteric psychology and esoteric astrology.   EA 237

 

Children should be studied in the following directions:  Astrologically - to determine life tendencies and the peculiar problem of the soul.   Psychologically - in accord with knowledge of the seven ray types.   Medically - with special attention to the endocrine system.   Vocationally - where gifts and capacities can be expressed and Spiritually - noting where the age of the soul is.   ENA 10

 

The majority of children born now have come into being accidentally or are not wanted.  Some few are desired, but even in these cases, that desire is usually based on reasons of heredity, property to be passed on, and old name to be perpetuated or an unfilled ambition to be satisfied.   EP1 297

 

Education of the world's children must be built upon our similarities, our creative achievements, our spiritual idealisms and our points of contact.  The two major ideas that should be taught to the children are: the value of the individual and the fact of the one humanity.   ENA 46

 

Today's average child (for the first five of six years):

          is the victim of his parents' ignorance, selfishness, or lack of interest,

          is frequently kept quiet and out of the way because his parents are too busy with their own affairs - busy with nonessential matters, compared to giving their child a right start,

          is left to his own resources or those of some ignorant nursemaid, at a stage when a destructive little animal should be developed into a constructive little citizen.

          is dragged hither and thither according to his parent's whims,

          is sent to school with a sense of relief on their part, in order to get him occupied and out of the way.

          at school is frequently under the care of some young, ignorant though well-meaning person.

By this time the mischief is done and the form of his later educational processes (from eleven onward) is of small moment.  It is obvious that the majority of children get off to a wrong start and begin life basically handicapped.   ENA 74+

 

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