Submission does NOT mean weak of mind, spirit or otherwise. It takes great strength to be who and what you are. Honsty isan underused and underestimated virtue. Submission is something I take very seriously, a gift which must be earned. There must be truth, honesty and respect.
People exploring BDSM for the first time are often like kids in a candy store. Someone who has fantasized about control, bondage, humiliation, spanking, whipping, threesomes, group sex, etc. can easily get carried away when first actig on those impulses--but there isnever any substitute for knowledge, caution, common sense, practice nd experience. Have fun, explore, experiment, but be careful; serious physical nd psychological harm can result from taking something farther than you or your partner are prepared for.