To sum it up, You basically start out optimistic and open. You get hurt and either evolve, or get hurt several more times until you do evolve. You end up evolving into someone who has fun with members of the oppostie sex and is confident in their abilities. Then someday your perfect person comes along and you get married and live happily ever after. Am I right? When you start out you're a chump. You get hurt over and over. You doubt your abilities, you doubt your looks, your confidence... your self esteem in general fucking plummets. You end up becoming cautious and untrusting of people in general after having your heart ripped out so many times. Luckily, some people get to skip this phase and some learn from the first time. You then end up becoming less concerned with this stupid ideal of what love SHOULD be and realize that it's really not. You learn to accept that this is bullshit and eventually you stop caring. When you stop caring you decide you don't want to play these teenage-love games anymore. You decide that it's not healthy and you realize that you really would rather have sex because then you understand where you stand at all times. No questions asked. From there you're supposed to have fun and what not, and eventually you end up with the person you're going to be with. I'm sure SOMEONE out there is saying "Yea right.. what a pig" by now. Ok, that's fine.. let me explain further.
You ever had a relationship where you were completely serious and no one got hurt? One that didn't result in marraige? I mean come on, Girls and Men are basically one of 2 types. 1) they have low self-esteem. Your presence makes them complete. They'd do anything to keep you there because you make them feel better about themselves which is something they obviously can't do on their own. They're controlling, they lie, they cheat, they fuck with your head and your heart.. all because they're not comfortable with themselves. Don't think you've had one? Ask your girlfriend or boyfriend if he/she's cool with just having a fuck buddy relationship. These types will say one of these things; "FUCK NO!" "Why are you asking?!" "Is there someone else?!" "Why would you want thaT?" and they'll start becoming suspicious of you. You can hear the panic in their voice. If they say something like "Wha? We're not already?" or "Hell yea!!!" they're 2) Independant - they realize that puppy love is cute and nothing more. They realize that its all just bullshit. They don't complain about you going out all the time. They dont constantly ask you where you were or who you were with. It doesn't matter cause they're having fun with their lives and you. If you're busy that's fine. They are too. Possibly with other people :) heheheh.. I would think that a large percentage of girls pretend to hate this type of guy and say shit like "OH what an asshole! he just used me for sex!" So? Everyone has used someone for sex at some point in their life (with a few possible exceptions, ie - mormons). Now who here has never been used for sex? Really? Does every single relationship you get into *HAVE* to be serious? Why? One of you is just going to like the other person more than the feeling is returned and that person is going to be crushed when they find out its not as serious as they think.
So whats my point in all of this? Fuck if I know. EVERYONE SHOULD JUST FUCK AND FORGET THE IDEA OF RELATIONSHIPS! Would be nice huh? Short of the one you hold on to forever, relationships dont really matter at all. They're just prolonged pain and suffering. If you don't believe me, Think about your boyfriend/girlfriend now. Picture them on the phone telling you they dont think you should be together anymore. Picture them a week later at the same party you're at holding someone else laughing and having fun. Think of that burning fucking pain inside your stomach. The way it twists up into a ball. Then picture their lips meeting for the first time.. the way yours first did, imaging this new girl/guy feeling that anticipation as they start that first kiss..then imagine them kissing more and more.. laughing, smiling, happy without you, heavy petting, heading upstairs..
and you fucking tell me it was all worth it.